I’m wanting to have a random hook up or two on vacation but I’m so nervous.

Ecstatic_Mud_8806 · 2026-02-25T05:46:57+00:00

Just download the dating app and go for it

sisyphussreality · 2026-02-25T08:26:49+00:00

And I want to find a woman I love and who loves me. Let's see who gets lucky first.

Realwoujo · 2026-02-25T06:17:38+00:00

you probably shouldn't be hooking with random people. I think you need to date somebody for a while and get comfortable with them. Random hook ups can go wrong in lots of ways, and if you have weird traumas or insecurities they will just worse.

iamnotsure69420 · 2026-02-25T08:55:04+00:00

I’d say join a dating app like Hinge and put seeking short term relationship, with looking for casual fun. You’ll probably get a bunch of creepy desperate men, but the goal is to find someone who is down and respectful.

When I want a short term fling, I actively seek out those women with short term relationship goals, match with them and show them that although I want casual sex, I can still be a gentlemen about it, which they appreciate. It’s a numbers game though and again, you will probably run into a lot of creeps but screen them and be safe. Hope you find what you’re looking for and have fun

HauntingAsparagus2 · 2026-02-25T12:41:16+00:00

Coming from the opposite side, on top of your physical type, I think you should filter for the following:

comfort: does he make you feel comfortable and safe? Does he see the person, not just flesh?
genuine attraction: for lots of dudes, the stereotype is that bigger girls are "easy", so some dudes will target bigger girls intentionally if they just want some quick and easy sex. However, lots of dudes genuinely like bbw's (myself included), so don't be desperate to catch the first dude that shows you some love

Point is, maybe try to make it a fun experience without sacrificing your self esteem

Have fun 🤙

ArjunVermaReddit · 2026-02-25T11:48:26+00:00

Make it clear that its going to be a one time thing. A lot of guys love the BBW, including me. Though I dont go for obese women, a lot of guys definitely do and so have I once in my life.

PhantxmMenace · 2026-02-25T13:06:09+00:00

Be safe, and make them use protection.

alifteronreddit · 2026-02-25T13:59:52+00:00

Look up GLP1, start exercising and book your vacation in six months as a reward for your weight loss

ygiftcard · 2026-02-25T08:46:08+00:00

get in the game bro... you are way behind and need to experience at least 100 failures to catch up. Go out there and obtain 50 rejections as quickly as possible to acquire a passive skill called "THICK SKIN". 🫡Game on soldier🙂‍↔️

Mobile_Winner_4189 · 2026-02-25T06:10:08+00:00

I can give you a pleasure if you need it

Title	I’m wanting to have a random hook up or two on vacation but I’m so nervous.
Author	Next_Brief_250
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	February 25, 2026 5:42 AM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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