Was downtown with a friend running the pong tables as usual and I noticed a cute blonde in a red dress and her friend sitting by themselves. I watched for a decent moment to approach since they were talking then danced a bit. After they got bored/a little tired I went up to them and asked them if they wanted to play pong vs me and my friend. The blonde didn’t really make eye contact so I shifted to her friend who politely said no thanks and was smiling a bit. I told her she could be on my team and it would be fun, she jokingly said no thanks again then I went back to my own business. It was surprisingly easy to do at this point and I’d like to think I’ve gotten more charismatic since I smiled and was playful, had a few girls ask to play with me and my friend later that night as well. Currently I’ve fixed both my posture, become more relaxed and playful there, only thing left is to be flirty like not be afraid to give a girl a compliment and have it work well. Last time I did that the girl was uninterested but said “aww thanks”