Infield question. WHy do girls do this?

Rx_LoveII · 2016-05-23T03:48:25+00:00

Thats how women function in groups out in the wilds of the social jungle.

That's why its of tantamount importance to charm the friends, once you have that as a base-coat you can go for the apple of your eye.

Just like gladiator had to win the crowd. Win the friends, and you will win your freedom.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-05-23T08:29:24+00:00

Why is it, the friends of the girl you are talking to are keen on removing her from the interaction overall. Even when the girl is clearly interested and into it?

Look, here's the problem. Girls will usually help you if the girl is interested.

What's happening here is that your awareness of what the girl actually wants, is so far off, you don't realize that her friends are actually bailing her out of the interaction when they pull her away.

She is NOT not into it when this happens. She'll tell her friends to go away with a glance or brief words if she's into it.

I approach a group of girls with 2 or 3 of them in there little circle and I make a straight-line drive to the girl I am most interested in.

Yeah, that's a poor way to start, by creepily ignoring her friends. Also shows fear, whether you like it or not, that you can't or won't engage the group first. It's possibly disrespectful, too.

I don't introduce myself to the group, instead I say some witty shit or something that grabs the attention of the girl I am interested in and basically try to physically remove her from the little social circle with subtle touches and what-not.

Trying to physically remove her right off, isn't subtle. It's predatory to open with that and you shouldn't need to literally pry her away. If you're doing it right by connecting with her first, then she'll isolate herself.

Out of the 4 times this happened, 2 times I approached the girls trying to push her away and question them, like why do this, and no response.

Of course they don't respond. You apparently approached awkwardly and didn't even notice that her friends had to bail her out.

At that point, they probably don't think that answering you will accomplish anything.

Other times I tell the girl to stay where she is, or tell her that her friends are boring or something.

Think this through. If she wanted out so much that her friends bailed her out, is asking her to stick around going to do anything? Is insulting her friends going to help?

What can I do?

I recommend a philosophical shift, man. You need better information on these girls as you're in the field with them.

Which means you need your senses and brain power focused on observing these girls more. Instead of whatever you're doing, thinking of what to say or psyching yourself up to kino way too early.

You also need to approach this more holistically: socialize with everyone, not just the girl you're focused on. If she's in a group, you NEED to interact with them. They're also more than an annoyance, they're a source of information about the GIRL. If you're paying attention, anyway.

If you play it right, that group she's in will run interference for you, not get in the way. I've been adopted into such groups, who then blocked out and ejected guys who tried to game girls I was gaming. All because I was not creepy and treated them all like humans, not barriers.

Title	Infield question. WHy do girls do this?
Author	pooperbana4
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	May 23, 2016 2:43 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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