So I have been having a pretty hard time in life recently...

For the longest time, I never really thought I had any trouble getting women. I have never really made it a point to go out and game, I just did it for the relationship.

These relationships have been increasing in length over the years but have all ended in heartache. I never noticed that I was really being myself around these girls when we first start dating and then I just morph into this weird, needy person that always has a creeping suspicion that the girl will fall out of love with him... because it happens every, single, fucking time.

It happened again about a month ago and I felt lost like always, but something was different this time. I started thinking about the similarities in all of my long term relationships and I happen to find seddit. I read a few things and realized that my inner game is all fucked up.

I plan on changing this. I have already started going out and talking to as many people as possible no matter what. In two weeks I have already found a new job, and possible side work that I really enjoy and I already feel that surge of confidence and I really miss the feeling.

Inner game is something that I have overlooked for too many years. Focusing on yourself and finding out who you are really plays an important role in your relationships in the future. Thank you seddit for helping me to set my life in the right direction.