I get thrown off my game a lot, lose my frame, lose the moment, for one reason or another, the girl says something, I get into my own head, nerves. I develop oneitis a lot, which then causes me to be frustrated, depressed, and drives me to this site.

Its only after I read the inner game section on the side bar that I start to feel better. I read it, and then I look back on the successful nights and hot streaks that I have had with the ladies. What was I like on those nights, how was I acting, what was my mood? Well, I was happy, I was talking to everyone, I was deciding the bottle of wine and appetizers for the table, I was getting people on the dance floor. I was genuinely just having a good time with me, myself and I, and everyone around me had the great pleasure in partaking in my presence. Then suddenly I find myself with a girl at the end of the night that wants to go home with me.

Then there are my bad nights...what am I like then? Well normally someone is inside my head, whether she is present at the bar with me and I'm trying to decide whether she likes me or not, and I'm planning my next move; or if she's not in the bar and just in my head from another night and I didn't get a text from her that day and I want to overanalyze it like a little bitch. So now I've spent so much time thinking about this girl that she might as well just be a figment of my imagination for all I care because all I have done is fantasize about nothing that will ever happen between her and I...meanwhile, there are another 15 girls in close proximity that I could be having a good time with.

So what am I going to do about this problem of falling in and out of frame. I'm going to read that inner game section every week, and in bad times I'll read it every day. Just as a constant refresher of the good person that I am, and that I should be exuding my value onto others, and to remind myself that my main goal isn't get a certain girl to like me that night....its to enjoy myself. When I enjoy myself is when I get laid.