Summary:

Have you ever dated a girl that was insecure and needy, before you even started dating? (Constantly wanting to know where you stand,shit testing..all while being hard to get) Or should I avoid that all together?

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Details:

I [22] been talking to this girl [20] for a while , she hit me up out the blue saying that we should link up (I said I wasnt free that day but we should set something up , so I asked her when would she be free the following week. She said she'll let me know once she get's her schedule for work (understandable)... Every now and then I would send a ping text .. "Hope you have a great day" when all of a sudden she started texting me stuff on the daily like (I like you,I can't stop thinking about you , I feel like you aren't being honest with me, I want to know where you stand with me) like LONG PARAGRAPHS ..I'M TALKING LIKE 300 word essays , 5-7 texts at a time. Everytime I would reply briefly and keep it cool , she'd calm down. And the next day it would be the same thing again (I feel so confused , how do you fee about me? I don't play games I win them,and some more BS)

It felt like we were in a relationship already , without even meeting or going on a date yet (well in her mind atleast) . Expecting constant texts from me , and taking so long to get back to me about her schedule for AN actual date. Seemed kind of weird to me, am I bugging ?