Instant dates

JLSAAAA · 2017-07-31T08:47:26+00:00

Day is less threatening and you could say: hey, I was actually on my way to get some coffee before I got distracted haha. Wanna join?

DirkDieGurke · 2017-07-31T16:17:53+00:00

Coffee? Coffee?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-08-07T09:13:01+00:00

What's a good way to ask a girl on an instant date if I had just approached her? Day or night.

Couple things:

What's your hurry? Just because some advanced dudes who have tight schedules or a need to up the difficulty curve for themselves, wish to try for instadates, is no reason you can't set up a date on another day like a normal person.
If you're not advanced, pushing for an instant date on someone you just met, when you have no idea what they're doing, is going to be problematic. You might try feeling out conversations to see how long you're comfortable holding those, before you try for the instadate.
Night time insta-date? Uh, why? Night game, you're talking about clubs and bars. Girls you meet here don't need to go on a date. You're having fun goofing of with them at the club or bar and then going to her place or yours. You're over-complicating matters by trying to cram a date in there when the usual path leads straight to the bedroom at that point.

Overall, during the day, you might just try feeling out a girl in conversation first. See if YOU actually want a date right then. And if you're wandering some place just looking for a girl to insta-date, then you're kind of flirting with neediness anyway. If you're on your way to doing something, just go do it. If you meet someone cool, great. But it's kind of tricky odds you're playing with there.

Title	Instant dates
Author	remagameremag
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	July 31, 2017 7:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6qn08m/instant_dates/
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