Happy New Year's everyone.

Before some of you claim, race is non existent and #alllivesmatter , all that kumbaya bullshit, it exists and this post is to my brethren that frequent women outside their own racial background and has dealt with certain backlash.

Background: As a first generation 22 year old Nigerian American male college student in nyc (born stateside, parents not) with a ethnic name and "African looking"physical features, my experience with women of different racial backgrounds in New York city bars and clubs is narrowed.

There are the women that are looking for a "jungle fever" or "exotic" experience and those who want nothing to do with at all. It's a spectrum of those extremes that I deal with.

There is always that woman that likes men of certain races haha to put it in the most politically correct term possible.

It's always easy to open and close to these women even playing on their "love for dark chocolate".

My question is (only to people who frequent interracial experiences or friends because my question would not seem so ignorant) "How do you circumvent these women while still going after women of other races?

Basically I am attracted any women of any race with long hair and curvy figure but particularly blonde European women and south American women maybe even Asian women (Heidi Klum like but curvier) but don't want the "one" that has "jungle fever"

Please note that in this day and age certain races are viewed objectively lower than others. Ex. Negative stereotypes of African males cause more of a guard than that of Caucasian males or Latin American males.

Sorry to anyone offended but please only contribute if you understand what I'm referring to. Basically, if you don't go after women outside of your race it will be much harder for you to relate to my experience but your insight is welcomed.

Tldr: your experience actively going after women of different races and avoiding the "exotic seeker".