Went out tonight. Cops came and after the party was shut down a lot of people were just standing about. The whole party I was with some girls (friends nothing romantic) I kind of know but wasn't able to work up courage to find other people (namely girls) to dance with.

After the party, a guy I know had like 5 girls all over him, touching, talking etc. I'm standing near with his group but didn't introduce myself to any of them because they never even looked at me. This is kind of long but essentially my questions are:

  1. wtf do I have to do to get to that level? I mean he knows literally every hot girl and so many of them are so touchy with him (like hugging, chest touching, random piggy backs). He's also 6' 6" or some shit, I'm 5' 7", but I wouldn't say he's anywhere close to greek god status...

  2. if I was in his situation I would probably awkwardly react to this sort of touching and turn the girl off. Even with the girls I was with, our conversation was never "fun," it got pretty dry. How can I establish myself as a fun ass guy to be around and someone who is approachable in an intimate way?