Hi all, it's been 3 years since entering the real world after college; I've decided to make a change in my life for the better and become better with women, as well as people in general, and continue to grow as a person. A little background, I've never been good with women, and never been in a relationship. Despite this, I consider myself to be a pretty likable person, as I have an easy time connecting with others and people seem to like my goofy, "life of the party" kind of attitude during social gatherings.

Back in my senior year of college, I dabbled with the PUA/seduction sort of thing and got some results here and there, but I never delved into it deep enough for it to make a huge change.

Fast forward a couple of years after college and to say my life from a sex and romance standpoint is limited would be generous. So instead of sulking around and wondering why my life is the way it is right now, I want to make an active change and sort this part of my life out, so that way I can be the best version of myself and live my life to the fullest.

I'm 27 and still currently live at home with my parents about an hour outside of NYC. I understand that this is part of the issue; however, I am looking to move out this upcoming summer. A lot of my friends have moved out of my hometown, so not a ton of people to go out with all the time, but I can make it work with some friends in the city I'm looking to move to sometimes, as well as some trips to NYC via train. In addition, starting next week, I've booked weekends for the entire month with things to do in different cities visiting friends to do the things I've actually wanted to do and give myself ample opportunities to start practicing this stuff.

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Now that I've given some background info, I'm asking some members of the community for some recommendations on what materials I should start with/where should I start. I started reading "The Game" (I know, very generic starting point, but it's enough to reintroduce and get my feet wet on the topic), and I've scheduled a consultation call with Matt Artisan (The Attractive Man) regarding his bootcamp, which I've read some good things about online. I'm seeking out any other websites, forums, books I should be reading, videos I should be watching, movies with characters I can model my frame after, etc. to help learn material and get things in motion. Any help or guidance is really appreciated, thanks guys.

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P.S. If anyone needs a wing or wants to get a group together in the NYC area, let me know.