Short history. I met this girl at a party last year, 20 yr old blond/blue eye. Very pretty. I managed to get her while she was in a very vulnerable state. She dated several ppl in my friend's fraternity, all the relationships failed. We flirted for a bit and then started making out, she seemed very attracted to me. I handled the situation well. We went on a second date and it was great. She wouldn't put out and told me she doesn't have sex til deep in a relationship.

We texted that week a bunch, she asked me to come visit her, I did. Turns out she's a virgin, showed me her purity ring. I realize that's why all her relationships have failed and were brief. She started crying cuz she thought I would leave. I told her I wouldn't. We watched "Get Out" that night but she had to pray with me first (she's pretty religious). She was already talking about a relationship, clingy behavior, asking me where I saw myself in 5 yrs. It was too much too quickly, I ended up leaving the next day. She took that personally.

I tried to re-initiate on her several times. The next day after I left I actually felt bad, i texted her it was nice waking up next to her and that I wanted to continue seeing her. She started playing games, stringing me along, I didnt let it crack my frame but I think I did too much explaining. She ended up telling me we want different things from a relationship. I re-initiated on her a few times over the course of several months, didn't work out. She had an attitude towards me, talking down to me, couldnt let it go that I left even though I told her I was down for a relationship. I finally told her to fuck off.

-----Here's the current situation-----

It's been like over half a yr since I talked to this girl. I added her on facebook. She added me back and I messaged her "I still think about you sometimes :)". An attempt to flirt. She just said "oh?". I'm not surprised. No big deal there, I tell her I'm gonna be in her neck of the woods for my fraternity's tailgate at the football game. Basically tells me she'll think about it and strings me along. I saw her posting on facebook looking for a ticket to the game. I tell her I wanna buy her a ticket it's been forever since I got to take someone out to the game. She tells me she doesn't know if she's going with 'someone' or not. I said "Lol cancel on him. Come w/ me". She was posting on snapchat earlier that week with a guy I'm pretty sure she's dating. The guy looked pretty lame tbh. She asked me if I'm actually watching the game, I said ya I got my ticket. She said ok and then I asked her out to brunch at 12pm in town, she didn't reply.

On the day of the game she messages me a somewhat enthusiastic text. Tells me she'll message me when she gets into town and that she might make it to the tailgate and she's just going with the flow and "maybe we can watch the game together!" I message her an enthusiastic text back, wanted her to feel comfortable.

I mentally prepared myself for this meetup, prayed to God for strength and come with my confidence and charismatic demeanor.

She calls me as I'm walking into the game. I meet up with her, give her a hug, and I start making small talk with her. Ask her about this certification she posted about on FB. She tells me about it. In the midst of talking I say "I'm glad we finally got to meet up again!" She doesn't look back at me or anything, says "Yeaaa. Finally" under her breath a bit and with a sarcastic attitude. I brush it off, we're still walking she mentions this friend group we both have and she mentions this previous ex she was with for only a month and that he beat her and that's why he got kicked out of his fraternity. I'm positive now she was lying. We continue to walk, her body language has been distant this whole time, won't look at me or anything. It's a big stadium too. After easing into a bunch of conversation, I make that my chance to close the distance with her. I walk in front of her and reach back with my hand to grab hers, I tickle at her hand and she says "No, we're not doing that" in a condescending attitude. I don't make a big deal of it, just probe and calmly ask why. She said "like I said I'm kinda just going with the flow". She walks in front of me, I playfully pinch at her hand she goes "Nope" and I reply with a smile on my face

Me : Didn't take you very long to start liking me :). Her : You're walking on eggshells, you might wanna walk away right now. (in a pretty bad attitude, also not using the phrase correctly) Me : I'm not talking shit :) Her : I know, I'm just saying

This is when my frame started cracking. I havent been tested to this extent, I couldn't tell if she genuinely didn't want to be there with me or was testing my frame. Was kinda awkward after that, I alluded to the fact that we made out while she was sick cuz i bought a bottle of water and asked her if she wanted a sip. She said no, I told her I dont have cooties and if anything I have a great immune system lol. She was disgusted by that. We finally get into line, her body language was closed off. She had been bitter the whole time we were there. I calmly ask her

Me: Hey. So what's it gonna take for you to lighten up to me (with a light smirk) Her: Look, you're great and all, but I'm kinda dating someone

My frame cracked. I 180'd and walked off. I can hear her yell "What the fuck?!" I clear my head and walk back to where we were. I see her at the wall on her phone. I calmly approach her and ask

Me: Why are you at the game with me if you're dating someone? Her: I'm not at the game with you, I came with a lot of people! (Even though we met up and she was by herself.) Me: (calmly ask) Why are you so fuckin bitter towards me? Her: Because I fuckin can!!! Me: No you fuckin cant Her: Get the fuck away from me!! Me: You are a fuckin spazz

Now I'm not sure if i should've held her to the same standard of dating. She dated me briefly and it was exclusive between us so I just held her to that standard.

I've never felt so embarrassed in my life. I wasnt even close to her when she told me to get the fuck away from her. I'm a very relaxed and happy person and I'm still wondering what set her off so badly. I think i should've just mirrored her behavior the whole time but from our previous she never acted like this. She probably dated a guy or two in the meantime who it didn't work out with so I have no idea what her state of mind was at this point.

Later I sent her a couple texts explaining I was inviting her out to try and get to know her again. No reply. I dont normally do this, I called her a few times, she screened them all. Knew I wasnt going to see her again if I didnt try. I left her a voicemail later that night. Elaborating that I do feel some guilt still for not giving her a chance and I don't know what shes been through lately.

I got really drunk with some friends later that night I finally did what i never do. I ranted at her over text. Told her I would fucking end her if I ever caught her treating a guy the way she treated me, her attitude is toxic as fuck, cant forgive or forget etc... For anyone who knows me, I'm pretty far from that and it takes a lot. Me personally, i think i just seriously fucked up and didn't pass her tests. I don't know what to make of her behavior other than it being overall disrespectful

It's hard to tell why she wanted to be there with me. Maybe she thinks I'm a pushover and just wanted a fraternity guy to go with? Or she's got serious problems and a relationship would've never lasted. Did I dodge a bullet?