I actually met this girl about a decade ago. Somewhat briefly at a fraternity date party. We danced a bunch and went on a date. Can't remember much else, we didn't have sex though.

Fast forward a few years later, I met her up for lunch and one or two other dates, we kissed a bunch but that was it. Can't remember if she rejected me or we stopped talking due to life. No sex though.

Fast forward another few years later, which is now. I created an instagram, added her somewhat randomly. She DM'd me and we banter back and forth. It was fun so I set up a dog date. I picked her up from her place. We went to the park to chill with the dogs. Talked a bunch and reconnected. Really fun talks too. I end up suggesting we go grab a bite and a movie. We do all that, I get some good kino in. We go to the bars, she's been giving me IOI's all night so I grab her and we kiss a bunch.

Two days later she invites me to come over. Fun flirting and yadda yadda, we have sex that night. I got her off transitioning from penetration to oral over a few times. Her orgasm was intense. She tried to give me oral but I couldn't get off. My performance anxiety is strong.

Two days later I make plans with her, go over to her place again. Flirting, yadda yadda, then sex. Good sex and I got off.

Another two days later it's a friday and a premier to a movie. I like good movies. Invite her to come with me and we went. We have sex the next morning. Good sex again and I got off. I leave, tell her I'll be back in her neck of the woods at night cuz I got friends coming out for the city bar life and she can be my date if she wants, but no big deal either way. We end up meeting up that night and it ended being just us 2 and we had a good date.

Next day we wake up and go watch football (it's Sunday) and I end up leaving that evening, realizing we spent so much of the week together. We kiss a bunch before I leave.

She bought us tickets for a concert the next Tuesday (which is last week now). She couldn't make it cuz she was at a funeral and wasn't going to be back in town in time. I said it was nbd and maybe we could meet up the next day.

On wednesday she txts me a photo of a happy hour thing at a coffee shop. We both like coffee. I reply "We goooo" and she laughs and says "We go ;)". I follow up with it the next evening and she doesn't text me back til several hrs later after it's over that she's still not even home yet from work. Her response was brief and didn't bother to make other plans so I didn't say anything back and didn't want to be on her nuts.

She texts me the next evening at like 12am (this last friday) asking me what I'm up to. I didn't respond cuz I wasn't in her area and I assumed she would've hit me up sooner than that if she was all about seeing me. I texted her the next evening (saturday) when I was in her area saying my bad I didn't hit you back up I was in another city but I'm back in her neck of the woods.

She texts me Sunday morning she's back in her hometown visiting her grandma. I ask if her grandma is ok and she vents to me. I empathize with her and tell her she can call me if she wants to talk, whenever and wherever. I think this came off pretty weak on my part but not sure. She texts me later that evening when she got home telling me how tired she was. I try to set up a coffee date with her and no response for the last 3 days.

Should I contact her in any way or just live my life and wait for her to reach out. I don't want to waste good chemistry but I also don't want to give up any more power. Can I probe with a question about the situation?