hi guys, I am a 22 years old guy from a 3rd world country but since a year I've been in Germany. Now I study at a technical university and sometimes I join some meeting organizations or trips. The problem is, there is always less girl compare to men and a girl gets at least 5 guys coming on to her in every event and that really kills my all motivation. I feel like an animal when I be one of these 5 guys. If I stay away, nobody talks to me, no one cares because I am a man. Because I am the one who has to be making the moves. To meet a girl I have to be one of these 5 and it sucks. You know how many males run after a female in documentaries, for me it is just like that. I have never had a girlfriend, what am I supposed to do? I tried parties, clubbing and it is again like that. 1 girl 5 men. Okay, we are animals also but can't it go smooth like it is in movies? Is there always have to be 5 others?

I used to think I can't get any girls because it is about social life. I changed myself a lot in last 2 years, I don't play any video games, I do sport, I go out but nope. I'm still alone and I don't want to be a guy who just looks after a girl to have a relationship. That also sucks. It is like a vicious cycle. Please help, I am so depressed.