Is it my appearance?

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-06-20T14:42:58+00:00

If you see a reoccurring theme among the people you date you're the only common denominator. Look yourself and the mirror and take an honest account of how you're putting yourself out there.

Too often we like the blame the people we date when we really need to do some self accounting.

You're attractive enough, it's not that. If guys arent interested in sticking around it's your personality. That's why you need to do the self accounting. Its uncomfortable sure but it helps.

Only reason I've dumped girls who were attractive is because that's all they had and they wanted the GF title. Was happy to sleep them them but that's it.

I imagine you have similar problems. Sure theres crazy guys but I imagine theres guys youd like to keep but they dont feel the same.

Captain_w00t · 2019-06-20T15:05:59+00:00

Disclaimer: I’m going to be very harsh, but it’s not my intention to offend or troll you in any way. Just consider that english is not my native language.

When I’ve read your post and seen your pic, I had some questions in my mind:

Does she really thinks that the quality of men she meets depends by her face?

If so, I’d suggest to look for different men, you look nice, but it’s not enough to attract the wrong men. Maybe your selection process should be fixed in other ways rather than your look.

She looks VERY nice, is she looking just for some validation here?

If so, maybe this is not the right place to get validation. However, it’s always a good thing to see a nice woman.

Is she a trans looking for validation here and check reactions?

Same as the previous point: if so, you did a good trans-formation job, but I’m sure there are better subs for this topic.

bkamin14 · 2019-06-20T14:06:37+00:00

I don’t think it has anything to do with appearance, you are good looking. There are good guys out there, just make yourself more noticeable. Fall for the nice guys not the douches.

2019-06-20T14:20:57+00:00

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tigermax42 · 2019-06-20T14:53:02+00:00

Nah you a solid 8.5

WIA20XX · 2019-06-20T17:44:27+00:00

It's been a string of men who are either crazy or hung up on their ex.

Plenty of girls look like you but those girls don't have your experiences.

So it is not the guys that you attract, but rather the guys you are attracted to.

I'd make some guesses about what rings your bell, but you already know.

Title	Is it my appearance?
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Comments	9
Date	June 20, 2019 1:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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