Sometimes I think when I have a girlfriend / fwb / sex is not what it's all cracked up to be. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy studying all of the PUA techniques, women psychology and the like, it has helped me build amazing confidence along with other hobbies that I have picked up in the recent years.

What I have noticed is that when I go on streaks of no girlfriend / sex partner / fwb that I'm actually HAPPIER and focusing on MYSELF. I spend more time with my buddies, family and at my hobbies with people who actually care about me and want me to succeed rather than some girl that could flake at any moment, get pregnant, have an STD, or turn your life into a living hell (I see it happen all over. I've dodged a few bullets myself).

Now I'm sure if the right woman comes along and lets you be YOURSELF things will click and you will have no worry with my above mentioned problems.

For all the virgins out there and guys that think they are hopeless, just remember that there is SO MUCH MORE to life than getting a girl. As they say, live your life how you should be and the right things will come along.