So I went to this art show/event this Friday with a couple friends. As I was waiting for the bathroom, I ended up talking to some dude (made a comment that he looked like Post Malone) and we hit it off. A couple minutes later, his girl comes to his side and I told her she looked like a spy from the 70’s (Halloween theme for this party) and things seem like they’re golden! I’m not always trying to fuck, so often finding a group of genuinely friendly people gets me stoked. At the end of the night, the girl asks for my number and I see a little side-eye from her guy, he looked confused so she went up to him and told him that she’s grabbing my number for the both of them. She texts me on Friday.

On Sunday I was really bored so I downloaded tinder and was swiping. I found the profile of this girl and the first photo is of her in leather lingerie in front of a pole and her bio says “HMU if you wanna hang”. I was shook. I never even thought about her in this way on Friday, but in her tinder pic she looked soooo fine. Anyways, I figured I would not swipe on her since I have her number and I deleted tinder. I messaged her on Monday but it was on some friendly shit and it made me realize that I suck at being sexual thru text. I invited her out to hang with some of my friends (since the reason I even got the number was to be friends with her and her man) but she said she was busy. She instead gave me the number to her man. What do I make of this situation? If she’s cheating or in an open relationship, how can I convey interest in her?