I met a girl on Saturday and plan on seeing her tomorrow but I have legitimate problems differentiating shit-tests from actual questions.
Tldr; How to differentiate a shit test from genuine interest.
Backstory: Girl X is like that ultra sporty kind of girl, plays football for the youth national team, studys sport, coaches 3 days a week,... you get the idea. I met her on the birthdayparty of her best friend who's in a solid relationship and have his blessing.
I kinoed Girl X a lot at the party (high fives, hugging, holding hands, lifting her up, putting my arm around her waist) but didnt get to kiss her as I waited to long to seperate her from the rest of the party and then she had to leave as she was having a game on sunday. When she left we hugged really long/tight and agreed that we would see each other again.
I wrote her up the same night expressing I am interested and kept things flirty, nothing too serious. We both love football so it seemed like a good point to mention it and get away from being to desperate.
Now shes asking me every once in a while what Im doing or if I have seen goal Y/game Z. Im not sure if this is genuine interest or just another shit test. I responded both ways most of the time, first cracking a joke/reversing it to her - and then telling her my opinion/story.
So far I have passed the really important shit tests "do you have a girlfriend?" and when asked if shes single and likes men "what do you think I like?" pretty easily. Any advice?
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