Is this a good idea?

joshsway · 2014-03-24T17:27:41+00:00

You are afraid of failure because "you like her". This is very common but a very BAD strategy. I wrote about this in detail here: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/taking-it-slow-is-a-bad-strategy
With that said, do not apologize. You will not gain much from it. If you get another chance, just make a move this time. Simple.

masterrod · 2014-03-24T16:42:50+00:00

I wouldn't do so, i would just make sure the next date you go for it. If you truly think it was a missed opportunity. Keep in mind, she may thinking she messed up some how, which works in your favor.

sharkacolypse · 2014-03-24T16:51:54+00:00

Make sure there's a next time and go for it then. An easy way to not pussy out is to build to the kiss. Make an excuse to get close to her, move your face in close and now you're 99% of the way there.

Everyone misses opportunities.

dandeezy · 2014-03-24T21:25:04+00:00

Going with the flow and saying things that feel right at the moment to me are much better than planning exact words to say. More likely than not things don't go your way or because the words were chosen at a different moment (one in your head) they don't feel right for then n there.

It seems obvious to me you got this in the bag. Best thing to do is pretend the first night went exactly how you wanted it. How you play it off (if you even have to) doesn't matter. It could be you weren't in the mood, or you wanted to see her reaction...blah blah. Point is: you didn't lose control. This trait is a turn on to her or any woman. Spend night #2 like your plans for night #1 were spot on.

And fuck her brains out for me.

Cheers!

acratophorus · 2014-03-24T22:30:47+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	Is this a good idea?
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Date	March 24, 2014 4:29 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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