Is this a shit test?

eatoncj · 2013-09-08T07:31:28+00:00

First mistake was texting all the time; second was texting like a 16 year old girl.

recyclablebantha · 2013-09-08T12:19:46+00:00

We usually text often and I like to give her a hard time, teasing, flirting, all that stuff and she gets into it......Tonight, she started talking about how lonely she is and how guys don't notice her or something like that

However, this sounded like friendzone stuff.

Evidently you're discovering how text can't replace actually making moves. She clearly didn't clearly understand that you're interested in her because you probably haven't shown her clearly.

The texts in question were not "friend-zoning" you. Your behavior prior to that friend-zoned you.

Having set the stage for this by not escalating with her before (particularly at the concert, which was a perfect opportunity), she confided in you about her frustration. It was not a shit test. She was basically telling you that she was frustrated that no one was making moves on her, including you........

I just replied with "sux 4 u". She didn't say anything back.

........And you basically told her to fuck off. Worst case: you insulted her. Best case: you conveyed to her that you could care less about her. Of course she didn't reply.

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-09-08T07:55:27+00:00

Did you do heavy kino at the concert? Cause it sure as hell sounds like you didn't kiss her. That was your shit-test. You should've made a move at the concert.

Now, what you have to do is hang out with her and fucking escalate. I always wondered why I was single for so long and it was all because I didn't escalate.

Title	Is this a shit test?
Author	CANADACANSUCKMYCOCK
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	September 8, 2013 6:47 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1lykeq/is_this_a_shit_test/
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