Is throwing yourself out there before you get in shape a bad idea?

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-09-02T01:43:49+00:00

If you wait until you conform to some sort of ideal version of yourself, you could wait a whole lifetime.

Life is passing you by. Don't hesitate.

kezchez · 2014-09-01T23:51:04+00:00

Dude there is no reason you can't start doing both. Putting yourself out there and approaching will only help give you experience and reference points to keep improving if you are mindful enough of your mistakes and have the knowledge of where to improve (RSD is good for that)

If you start now and by the time you aren't overweight you would be at a great advantage then what you would be if you did nothing.

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-09-02T14:30:50+00:00

Watch the first 20 minutes of American Hustle. Seriously.

dmcg1230 · 2014-09-02T18:49:34+00:00

I say start throwing yourself out there 10 minutes ago. Good idea. I did it.

Basically I was always confident and could talk to people really easily but exercising gave me that last missing piece to complete my game. Not that I'm some kind of legend or guru or anything, but I'd say throw yourself out there NOW. You may not get anything in return right now, but once you get in the shape you want, any sensible girl will be kicking themselves for not seeing everything that you are in the first place.

It's also a good way of keeping you honest with who you are and more in the moment, because I fear you might come to EXPECT better treatment once you get in shape. The words you don't want to hear are "you got cocky now that you lost weight."

Stay true to yourself ALWAYS but see the changes you want to make and MAKE THEM!!!!

Best of luck to ya!

iTz_BlaKe_B · 2014-09-02T01:48:06+00:00

I'm big and I've gotten 3-4 numbers in the past week. I'm not going out to pick up girls specifically but just be funny and any girl smart enough to make it to college shouldn't care that much if they're the type you want to meet. Just be funny.

Tombstone31 · 2014-09-02T00:57:40+00:00

I'm gonna get down voted to hell for this, but I think you should wait. When I got started I wasn't in great shape, and after doing a lot of approaches and getting a lot of rejections, I basically conditioned myself to expect rejection.

Then I got in shape, and it was a completely different paradigm...but I was (and still sometimes am) still trapped in that old mindset.

The entire concept of developing "skill" in seduction is really overblown in this community. The only real skill is learning how to get out of your own way, which you won't have to do if you never feel inadequate.

Everyone gets rejected, but you'll get rejected a lot less/have a lot more fun if you get in shape first, and this will lead to an overall beneficial mindset. A lot of times people post about waiting until something clicks in their life, and most of the time that thing isn't really necessary. But being in decent shape really is.

Title	Is throwing yourself out there before you get in shape a bad idea?
Author	machinegunbear
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	September 1, 2014 11:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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