A little back story about myself, Just turned 20, didn't lose my v card until I was 19, first hook up was 18. I'm a late-bloomer you could say, but my body count is still low. People are surprised that I don't get laid as I seem as apparently I'm a really good looking guy. I guess I just lack the self-confidence to see it but I mean, I can tell I'm not ugly. I am also a college student at the moment, so my game primarily takes places at college parties and the bar.

I often am good at talking to girls and macking my game. But I almost always take to long to either isolate her, or go in for a kiss. I either think too much, or talk too much, and I mean, I've recently had problems sexually being unable to get as aroused as the girl, even though I want to have sex, so I could be thinking too much into it.

I'm not begging for advice, but I would love to hear good ways to 'seal the deal' with a girl. I think I have everything pretty pat down, I just hate going up to my friends after talking to a girl and them saying, "Yo I can't believe you didn't get with her!" etc. Tired of making excuses and being ashamed of myself