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[–]bjlmag 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you're already fucking awesome, your problem is you took shit advice. Being an interesting man won't make women just fall into your lap out of nowhere. It's your job as the man to show up and bring them into your life.
Start meeting women and having fun with them.
[–]BroSonDude 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't know how to meet women, I already do a lot of different activities but they don't make me meet women, and I'm lost with all the stuff out there, there are so many things
It's like you could get a phd from learning all that seduction stuff, when other people just meet girls naturally in their everyday life
[–]bjlmag 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can meet girls naturally too. If there honestly aren't any girls in all these activities you do, you can still find simple places to meet them. Do you ever go shopping for anything? There are likely women in the stores. Talk to them. Do you ever go to coffee shops? There are probably women there, and you can talk to them. Do you ever go out for the night to a venue like a bar or dance studio? There are definitely women there, and you can talk to them.
Don't overthink it. Women are just people. People like to meet other people, especially if they're as fun and interesting as you say you are. Introduce yourself to some women, invite them to join you for something fun, and be clear about your masculine intent. It will take practice, but it's much more fun than it may seem.
[–]BroSonDude 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems hard, your examples don't work for me, I rarely go shopping as I order my stuff on the internet, it's cheaper and easier
And I never go to bars or coffee shops, as it's very expensive. (I earn some money, but it's still expensive)
In fact I never go out for anything else than doing sports or meeting my friends
I also have limited energy, I work 8 hours a day (but I have free weekend) and I do something like 2-3 hours of sport everyday in the week, it's a bit tiring, and the weekend I also do a lot of sport
I can speak easily with anyone, i'm not shy, but I don't get along with most of people for obscure reasons, I didnt make friends when I was a student because of that
Seems like i'm an asshole who don't like people
But i'll try to do what you say ty.
As it's getting warmer these days maybe I can go to the lake do some tumbling and gymnastics rings, people are often impressed and ask me questions each time I do that in summer, maybe it can be a starting point to meet some girls while doing sport ?
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know better than girls how their menstrual cycles work
WTF? Have you ever had menstrual cramps or premenstrual dysphoria? Of course not. Ever live with a long-term girlfriend who did?
You know much but understand little.
[–]BroSonDude 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can explain you the whole process, which hormones play a role and when, and what happens inside pussy, but yea you're right
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is the only thing that stuck out to me as well. It's the only thing referring to 'girls' in OP's post yet suggests a complete disconnection from reality.
Maybe make some platonic female friends your goal before persueing a relationship/hookup.
[–]_groundcontrol 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It started out ok, but when you got to
I know better than girls how their menstrual cycles work but I'm still virgin and never hanged out with a girl
Im was not sure you are joking or not. How do you know how well girls know they menstrual cycle if you never hang out with them?
Also if you have the looks and experience you talk about, tinder is a pretty sure thing for you
[–]BroSonDude 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean in a biological way, as a man of science, I can explain it with a scientific way as I have some knowledge in biology
I'm average looking, I don't think tinder would be good for me, I know that in all dating stuff there are 4000 mens for one woman, if I don't look much much better than others it's gonna be hard.
I would like real contact with women also
[–]_groundcontrol 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont be so pretentious man. Even though I know PTSD I would never say I know how victims of torture feel. Also most women know how their period work.
I mean sure Tinder women get a lot of matches, but you are are an engineer and have a income AND do sport you will stick out. Its not that hard. I concider myself average looking and still get a lot of matches.
Also meeting women from Tinder is also "real contact". I've met people there i hang out with.
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