I’m a man in his very early 40s and I think I want to try out sleeping with some of my female coworkers. I know that’s phrased oddly. Here’s my backstory and why.

I’ve been in a number of longterm relationships throughout my life and the vast majority of them have ended with my girlfriend/s falling for a coworker. I’ve always worked in male dominated fields where there’s hardly any females around or at the very least attractive ones so I’ve never really fully understood how this happens. All of my exes have worked around tons of men and are apparently constantly being flirted with. Here’s the rub-For the first time in my life I’ve found myself working in an environment where nearly half of a large number of employees are women.

Now. I find dudes that use their workplaces as dating pools fucking reprehensible. Most likely just because it’s affected me so negatively throughout my life. That said, I want to experience the other side of things. I want to make my job just constantly flirting with every female I work with. I have no desire to break up relationships but I want to feel what it’s like to be in that position.

Still not settled on if I really want to try this but let’s say I did…what kind of advice do you have to offer?