Just Made my second day game approach

calaber24p · 2012-02-13T23:49:16+00:00

browsing /r/gonewild has led me to theorize there is a vast untapped underground pool of lustful, unsatiated women. El Dorado. Go find it.

30vanquish · 2012-02-13T22:26:06+00:00

From a guy who has done mostly daygame, approach more to prove nothing bad really happens. And you talked for 10 minutes, very low cost for epic benefit. be proud for what you did

carrotplanter · 2012-02-13T23:17:10+00:00

Carpe diem! It's a good thing you were able to think of it as an opportunity to seize the moment or else you might regret it later. Just keep on doing it so you become less and less nervous, and when you're no longer nervous you're going to be able to think for yourself and figure out how to make the most out of your approaches.

watEvery1_isThinking · 2012-02-13T16:47:01+00:00

nice!

calaber24p · 2012-02-13T16:48:02+00:00

You're doing pretty damn good already dude. All you can do is approach, practice, and learn. It was also a good move of you to leave and let her get back to hw. She might be more willing to talk to you in the future because you aren't going to sit there forever bugging her. Good luck man!

IamYou13 · 2012-02-13T19:29:36+00:00

Awesome man glad to hear you were able to do your second day approach. I'm assuming this was done at school, and regardless if you were nervous or not remind yourself that you got up and did something --and that was approaching a girl. I just came back from one of my classes and didn't really approach anyone had AA reel me back to reality. But, you know I just mediated really quick in class [stared at a dot on my paper and counted till 25 with steady breathing] got rid of my nervousness and hopefully ill achieve my goal of 2 day approaches at school everyday for the rest of the semester.

So, good job for sacking up and actually doing it and next time if you feel nervousness creep in before hand just quickly mediate to relax and go about your business. By the way, what "opener," did you use? [just curious]

vazuzela · 2012-02-13T19:39:45+00:00

I think if you sit down to somebody's table who you don't know, there's an expectation that you're supposed to have a reason to sit down there and present it, it's like you're on audience, so you had some guts to do it, respect:D

But now that you are acquainted with her, next time you see her you can look for an opportunity to talk to her casually, it's really good if you are walking somewhere and she comes from the opposite direction, or she's stopped somewhere and you can ask her if she want to grab a coffee later.

The point is that you want to have a destination other than her, so you can stop by her, just to say hi, ask how is she doing and ask if she wants to hang out later. If she likes you she will say yes, if she says no, than at least you're not stuck in the uncomfortable situation hanging out with her knowing that she doesn't want to. Good luck!

Title	Just Made my second day game approach
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Upvotes	14
Comments	15
Date	February 13, 2012 2:39 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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