I know dating and seduction can be a hell of a journey especially if your new or have little experience. Approach anxiety has been a sticking point for me so far this year but in the things I’ve committed myself to doing is showing up consistently, no matter what. To me showing up means setting up times 2-3 times a week to commit to Daygame or Nightgame then just committing to those times I’ve set up. That’s it. No approaches, flirting or escalating (yet). Just a super simple task to start with. For example If I planned to go to bar on Friday from 10:30-11:30 to meet people...I go to bar on Friday from 10:30-11:30 and that’s mission accomplished everything else is a bonus.

Now what tends to happen with me after doing this a couple times is I either end up meeting a few women just by emersion or I don’t and it’s no big deal because my goal is to show up. I also become much more comfortable at places like loud bars and clubs. So far this year I’ve probably approached 6-12 women by just showing up and seeing what happens. So for those of you who are stuck trying to approach but can’t get past it maybe just focus on showing up consistently and building more comfort in your journey.