1) When it comes to one-night-stands, don't reject unattractive chicks. She may not look like an HB10, but it doesn't really matter in the bedroom. When the lights are off and you're the only two people in the room, looks instantly become unimportant. What really matters is that you're making each other feel good. Parting in the morning might be really awkward, but you'll probably look back on that one night with a smile.

Making it with a girl will also boost your confidence and give you valuable experience. Maybe next time you can take on a girl you do find attractive.

2) You have to think of things in terms of what you will regret the most. Sometimes you'll find yourself in a position where your own brain is in the way of getting what you want... talking to a hot girl on the street, for example. Your fears might be dragging you down and you might come up with excuses to NOT talk to that hot girl. "I'll never see her again," or "she's way out of my league," or "I don't really feel like talking to her anyway."

Chances are, you'll be kicking yourself later if you don't talk to her. You'll be disappointed in yourself for wussing out, and sad that you missed an opportunity to meet someone special. Youll think, "why didn't I talk to her? I should've at least said hi!"

Before you wuss out and run away from that beautiful girl on the street corner, think, "will I regret not talking to her?" YES. So push yourself, and go say hello.

3) Also, "hi" is the best pick-up line. It requires no effort, it easily gets her attention, and she can easily respond with her own version of "hello." You can also very quickly tell what she thinks of you by what she says back, or how she says it. A person's tone of voice is more enlightening than the words they say.

4) Some people say that "just be yourself" is terrible advice. I think it's great advice, but only when "just be awesome" comes afterwards. Becoming the person you want to be is the most important thing you can do. Get into shape, start being productive with your life, and push yourself to do things that you WANT to do but are uncomfortable doing. You will be more confident once you know how much you've improved yourself. I think that once a girl really gets to know you, she can only truly like you as much as you like yourself.

5) Say yes to things more. I am the type of person who instantly replies "no" to invitations from other people. I like my freedom and I am uncomfortable when people expect me to make a decision on the spot. But more often than not, I regret saying no and wish I had gone along with it... every time you say no, you might be missing out on an opportunity to experience something great.

6) Last bit of advice: watch more porn, but stop masturbating. I don't know the science behind it, but when I stop jerking off for a while, I feel like a fucking MAN. I don't know if it's built up testosterone or something else, but I feel bolder, more focused, more confident, and more energetic when I hold it in. I feel FULL. You know that empty feeling you get instantly after jerking off... not good.

Masturbation takes away the attention you could be giving to a lady, and directs it towards yourself. When your tank is empty you just aren't as driven to meet new girls or get closer to the ones you already know. So save it up for a real person, not a pornstar.

That being said, if I stop masturbating for too long I also lose a lot of my aggressive male vitality. Maybe it's from inactivity - if you don't use it, you lose it, as the saying goes. But watching porn - and NOT jerking off, remember - is a good way to keep your blood flowing down below and make you want a real woman even more.

The more you want something, the more you'll be willing to do to get it. You'll be able to conquer your fears and break your mental barriers.