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As cliche as this sounds, it's not you it's them. I am an African American and I know some people just won't find me attractive for that reason alone. It's their lost cause I'm a fuckin awesome person. Don't let it hinder you, would you even want to be with someone who let's that get in the way?
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:30 PM
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I'm sure nothing you have said in this post hasn't been said before, even the "I this subreddit is bullshit" note. I've been subscribed to this subreddit for years, and it's nothing like you make it seem to be. From what I've read over my time here, the main point is be comfortable and confident with who you are, and if you are having a good time the girl will enjoy herself as well. Oh, and kino. Don't try to touch her yet or do any of this weird kino shit. It's not weird to touch another person…
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:00 PM
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He wasn't referring to talking about her fault. I imagine he's doing the same trick as "Just imagine them naked when giving a speech" trick. Please don't refer to people as assholes especially without even giving them a chance.
/r/seduction17/06/14 04:54 AM
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The problem: I don't really know what to do or say to actually take her home after I've reached make-out-esque levels of intimacy at the club, and/or: I don't know how to show intent, create sexual tension, or create the otherwise mutual implicit knowledge that it's going to go down tonight. "Hey, let's finish this at my place." No this isn't as blunt as saying, "Hey, let's go have sex" but it should definitely be sending some "I want to have sex tonight" vibe. On another note, there are no magi…
/r/seduction11/06/14 04:01 AM
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Well I did, and it seems that there might be a tad bit of truth to VR's message. We miss certain visual cues, and fail to respond to them appropriately. This might help some, who misinterpret visual cues, and just disregard their over analysis. But I always say don't get too drunk, or even really drunk. I don't really like the article because it leaves out a lot of, "What do you qualify to be drunk or intoxicated" or other relevant facts and figures. But I think the overlying message should be, …
/r/seduction02/09/13 02:35 AM
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The Truth. You want to get a drink with her or let them know that their friends needs to find out how awesome of a guy you are and you don't like to yell because you're a rising pop vocalist like Justin Timberlake.
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:39 PM
0

Suggest she go to the bar or the wall, whatever, just away from the dance floor- some place you can just talk. It can be 10 feet away or 50. It doesn't necessarily have to be out of sight of her friends. Some girls do just want to dance, and some girls want the guy to take initiative. Be that guy.
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:28 PM
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I'd have to assume that you are at a club where there is dancing going around and you are right smack dab in the middle of it. If you think she's in to you and you want to advance, motion to her to go somewhere else. Not completely across the entire club, as this might seem you are trying to kidnap her and be act sketchy. Say, go to the bar. Grab her hand and lead her to somewhere away from the speakers. Get some water or a drink. Say you're hot and want to cool off for a second.
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:02 PM
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“Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.” ― Truman Capote “People never learn anything by being told, they have to find out for themselves.” ― Paulo Coelho, Veronika Decides to Die “No matter how long you train someone to be brave, you never know if they are or not until something real happens.” ― Veronica Roth, Insurgent A lot more experience quotes on this page. Sometimes, people just want to watch the world burn. Let 'em Burn.
/r/seduction17/02/13 10:58 PM
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I'd have to disagree with you. I thought it was a thorough read, but not too detailed. He gave examples, but nothing as far you seem to imply. As someone who has taken an interest in interaction between people, sociology but on a much smaller level, I am very amused and informed on the matter. However, your point isn't necessarily the opposite of what the author is trying to portray. There was an analogy in the text about a driver no longer having to think about shifting gears, it's just natural…
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:29 AM
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Sounds like an excuse to me? What better way to practice than with people who don't know your language entirely. It focuses less on what is being said, but how you are saying it or other non-verbal skills. Besides, you might as well practice your French.
/r/seduction11/01/13 12:33 AM
0

Something funny to say to a girl: Fuck yeah I'm gay, and you better be glad or else I'd have you in the back room before my shift ends. Or something akin to that.
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:14 AM
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If you think all girls are empty-headed, maybe you are approaching the wrong girls. Try a new venue. As for my luck with online dating, being black is not the way to go.
/r/seduction06/12/12 04:31 AM
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Have you seen the new James Bond movie, Skyfall? Wonderful movie, even if you don't like James Bond. While watching, I tried to take note of the pattern and his general personality. The best I can think of: Sexual innuendos. He makes remarks that aren't necessarily sexual, but makes them unequivocally sexual and he owns what he says. And of course as you said, kino.
/r/seduction06/12/12 03:18 AM
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NO, he wasn't being beta or alpha. It has nothing to do with that one particular situation; he was drunk. He did something he shouldn't have done, and it had nothing to do with his own accomplishments. He was talking about Beyonce, and not himself. Yes, he is cocky. He is extremely cocky, but if I had to judge, I'd say he's a lot more confident than he is arrogant. But in the end, it's all about perspective, and no one will truly know how they really feel but themselves.
/r/seduction04/12/12 04:03 PM
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I don't think the term beta and 'nice guy' are mutually synonymous. You can still be a nice guy, as in being chivalrous without being beta. When looking back on my beta way of thinking, it seems that I did it to show women that I was different from the rest of the guys. I would dedicate myself to her, apologize more, be overly compliant, and disregard my personal boundaries all to prove that I wasn't one of the regular guys. So in a sense, beta males are competing for women as well, but they're …
/r/seduction03/12/12 07:30 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction29/11/12 09:12 PM
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I make it a firm rule to not send more than one text in a row. And absolutely never send three in a row without a response. It's 2012, you know when you get a text and no one is too busy to not respond within 24 hours. There are little to no exceptions to this.
/r/seduction29/11/12 06:58 PM
1

I completely agree with you.
/r/seduction28/11/12 10:36 AM
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Like ThrowawayPUA mentioned, smile when you make eye contact. I'd like to take it a bit further, and even smirk/ sly smile. I smile immediately when I make eye contact, letting them know that they are the reason why I'm smiling. Take it one step even further, when you are close enough, mouth the word "Hi" without even vocalizing it. And appearance, honestly, in my opinion doesn't matter that much. Have you even seen a couple, and wondered, "How the hell did he end up with her.?" My favorite exam…
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:28 AM
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I don't 100% agree with this. Some women will wait for the guy to make the first move, or take the big step. That is how it is traditionally done, no matter how much anyone likes or dislikes this traditional way of courting. Another reason might be that she did make a move, and OP just didn't get the message. There is a stigma about women making the first move, so they might give subtle hints that some men might not perceive.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:17 AM
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1) I didn't say the question was stupid. I just don't like the question. If he wants to start a blog, then start it. No need for approval. 2) I'm assuming the blog isn't going to be for-profit, not from what I can gather. The informal attitude about whether he should start it or not seems like it would just be something he does, for fun. I'm not fully aware of blogs, but there is no need to lecture on what makes a profitable blog. I honestly think you're putting to much thought into what the OP …
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:01 PM
2

Correct sir, and drinking is one of those things I do enjoy quite a lot when on one of my many capers. But not getting wasted, there is a difference of course.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:41 PM
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Why don't you just do it, and then see it it garners any attention. I see this question posed on reddit, and it slightly irritates me. To me, it almost says, "I'll only do this if I think people will like it, and if it doesn't then I won't do it." People take interest in interesting things (and people), and disregard mundane things. Now the question you should be asking to yourself, "Is what I'm doing interesting?" If the answer is yes, do it. I'm sure other people will find it interesting. Don'…
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:39 PM
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There is one I like to use besides 'Hi' with a smile (which is the best line out there), is 'mytuppence.' I get surprised looks, then I say, 'That way you have a name for the handsome guy who stopped you to talk' ....[or whatever you decide to use instead of talk] I have used, 'You are too beautiful for me not to say anything'. This lets them know you are interested in them sexually from the get go. This is good as well. You should stop in front of them and turn your body towards them, but I don…
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:37 PM
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I read the article. The article doesn't say that this doesn't happen, but it was never reproduced from previous research. Maybe it is statistical chance but I've heard stories of this happening first hand.
/r/seduction11/11/12 03:51 AM
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I am bothered you are calling yourself a psycho-biologist. Good information you've said, but it's kinda not true to call yourself one. I have no clue as to what research you yourself have conducted, but the fact remains you haven't yet obtained your degree. Please make this more clear as the title is misleading.
/r/seduction10/11/12 11:30 PM
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I know that when women group together, they throw off each other's menstrual cycle. So yes, to a point that they do react to each other's hormone, but not sure about if it will help. But in other words, take a shower. That's just basic hygiene.
/r/seduction10/11/12 11:27 PM
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what do you consider too much?
/r/seduction12/10/12 03:59 AM
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You automatically a number close has anything related to do with the quality of the relationship formed. You probably used this as an excuse not to get her number. But you did what you need to do and start this awesome transformation.
/r/seduction11/08/12 05:42 AM
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I hate to say, but I think the term "natural" is misleading if not completely wrong. Sure this guy might seem to be smooth, and make it seem like everything comes 'naturally', but I am sure that this guy has learned to be that way. Now most likely, he might have been raised in such an attitude, it is ingrained within his personality, but personalities are again...learned. It just reminds me of something I read somewhere. NO one is born confident or cowardly, these are attributes we learn as we g…
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:38 PM
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Smile when you look at them. Laugh when they tell a joke. Look into their eyes (I've heard any eye contact for more than 7 seconds is an intimate act, and that's why people hardly hold eye contact). Touch her playfully and/or suggestively such as the lower back or close to the waist area by their sides. Say their name often when you speak to them. Flirt!!!
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:35 PM
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I'd have to say, I'm kinda disappointed in this response. In a situation, where you meet a guy who is actually interested, and there could be a plethora of reasons why he gave out a business card, instead of him receiving your information, and you wouldn't contact him because of that one aspect. And I don't think it's arrogant at all. If anything, I'd guess it was him trying to impress you if that. But that's just me.
/r/seduction17/05/12 06:36 PM
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Good Business
/r/seduction04/05/12 12:21 AM
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No. Not at all. This is where escalation comes into play. when you decide to single one out, escalate with them tithe point where it can't be misconstrued that you are 'just flirting'.
/r/seduction04/04/12 04:56 PM
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I am the same way. I can be very teasing and for someone to take offense easily, I already know it won't work. A witty girl is a sexy girl, of course if she's not ugly. :)
/r/seduction07/03/12 08:27 PM
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But I'd have to warn people that although this might be an insight, she is only one girl. Other women will have a completely different mindset than she will, and no one should take this as a matter-of-fact, but just as you said, an insight.
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:40 PM
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I make it a firm rule, there will not be more than two consecutive text messages without a reply. And two is pushing it. One call only. She sees both your text message and your call. She has the choice to respond to them or not. Some people are busy, and some people ignore you. But if I don't get a text message or call back within a day, it's a lost cause. Move on.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:13 PM
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Right, but we are past that point. He made the mistake of asking to be invited, and he got shot down. What do you do after that, especially after she said "Please don't hate me."
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:09 PM
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How do you think he should have ended the conversation? Should he have just ignored her future text messages? This is something I would have done, but we all know I'm a straight up ass hole. I'm not saying I don't agree with you, because I fully do, but how would you have handled it?
/r/seduction01/03/12 03:40 AM
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GD you. I came in here wanting to say the exact same thing. Great advice.
/r/seduction17/02/12 10:59 PM
2

I had an excellent time. I accomplished everything I wanted to These were young freshman girls and it seemed I would be taking advantage of them if anything more happened.
/r/seduction13/02/12 11:19 PM
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Ohh, I see. In this case I wasn't concerned. She is part of a social circle that overlaps my social circle. Thus meeting her again was almost certain.
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:01 PM
1

I feel as though people shouldn't even fake it to begin with. I strongly believe that any guy has the capability of getting any girl. We're all on equal playing field here. Could you clarify what you mean when you say become passive, as in this context.
/r/seduction13/02/12 06:44 PM
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Not really sure what you mean by takeaway.
/r/seduction13/02/12 06:42 PM
5

It also ended badly the next day at work? How much did you drink? How did you respond to your oneitis?
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:16 PM
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Who the fuck would downvote this? Wrestling is a very nerve racking sport, or it was for me. There is no one but you and your opponent inside a ring, wearing a revealing singlet.
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:03 PM
1

"Yea, who'd you come with. Introduce me to them"
/r/seduction08/02/12 10:32 PM
1

What you could do is...talk to one of the other girls there that were at the party. Pick a hot one, (would be a good way to open this one if the other doesnt work out)then ask that girl for the number of the girl who left. Or ask her to send her a text message explaining what happened, "HR person was right there and I didnt want to get fired from my new job, text me or call if you want to do something'. Or Facebook stalk her.
/r/seduction08/02/12 10:29 PM
1

I think you are asking about how to develop relationship with women you find attractive. Is that it?
/r/seduction07/02/12 07:25 PM
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I kinda got lost in your post but picked up on a few things nonetheless. I believe that you and me, and most likely a lot of other people might have the same problem. Women. An be more than just potential girlfriends and hookups. They are people as well. The easiest woman I could be friends with was my friends gf's and sisters. That is because there was no sexual tension from the get go, they were taboo and off limits. AND THAT is what got me into trouble. I've had many relationships that starte…
/r/seduction07/02/12 06:14 PM
4

I kinda want to see the comments being made....but sadly I can not.
/r/seduction07/02/12 02:39 AM
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I like your line about how black men are quick to approach, as I am a black man myself. I can only speak for myself on this one. Dancing is essentially the same as asking a girl for her phone number. It doesn't mean shit in the long run, but only 'may' lead to something else. You can put to much pressure on asking a girl to dance/get her number, and end up convincing yourself not to because you think it's this huge milestone that if you accomplish it actually means something, but it doesn't. The…
/r/seduction06/02/12 04:36 PM
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If a girl starts talking about a specific guy, other than yourself is when you might need to start worrying.
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:00 PM
1

Having trouble connecting on my Iphone. irc.freenode.net #reddit-seddit. No password. Getting: Looking up your hostname Couldn't lookup your hostname No Ident response Notice-- You need to identify via SASL to use this server Any help?
/r/seduction20/01/12 01:54 PM
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I agree that facebook could be a double-edged sword, especially since I've moved past that point. I won't be contacting her through facebook, but I was hoping this would send the message, 'You weren't just someone to fuck with one weekend'. Thanks for that.
/r/seduction20/01/12 12:58 PM
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Me gusta. Thanks for that.
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:56 AM
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True. I just don't want it to seem like I'm 'trying to hard' or really even trying at all.
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:55 AM
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Well if I take this approach, then I can disregard every rule and do whatever I feel like, no?
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:54 AM
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What physical things have you changed or noticed that has been a passive change about you? As to rule 1, I have the highest trouble as sometimes I find myself in a conundrum. E.g. I met someone last weekend. We met on the dance floor, made out, exchanged numbers. Went to the movies the next day, made out again and rounding second base. We each had a good time. The next day, she says she is busy and can't met cause she has work, and we end up with "Until Next Time' scenario. I live 100 miles away…
/r/seduction20/01/12 02:57 AM
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What is confidence to you? So many people say 'Be Confident' like someone telling someone else, 'just smile'. I have my own personal opinion of what confidence is, but just in your opinion, what do you distinguish confidence to be.
/r/seduction20/01/12 02:49 AM
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I think this is a great video for multiple reasons. Not only does hilarity ensue each time I watch this (only once), but you can take a number of key points about pickup. Getting a number is not hard. Therefore, don't make this your goal. If you make it your goal, you won't know what to do after you succeed and shoot yourself in the foot for something greater. You can look however you want, just not squalid, but it's rather what comes out your mouth. Yes, these guys are prob not getting any furt…
/r/seduction28/12/11 07:02 PM
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Damn you, you beat me to it. It wasn't really a neg, well... It wasn't a proper neg. But she did remember him, and cause her mind to come back to him to the point of inquiring others. He did come off as a little weird though.
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:31 PM
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You'll get to observe this more and more as you start approaching more. Ladies will turn their body towards you. You will interrupt more in the middle of someone else's sentence, not to be rude of course. But don't feel bad for them. All you can do is try to include them in the conversation, if you want, and if they lack social skills, oh well.
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:24 PM
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Want to send an unmistakable message to show him/her you are interested? Kino, kino, kino, kino. If you initiate touch, (s)he should get the point. Refer to the escalation ladder, any kino after the initial stages should be subtle enough, but won't make it seem like you are trying too hard. Eye contact won't hurt. Flirt with the eyes. But some guys are pussies or totally oblivious. And some just won't be into you for some vague reason. But if you want to increase your chances of getting laid, fo…
/r/seduction14/12/11 02:18 PM
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While phone number is something you need to continue on afterwards, it shouldn't be your goal. Get the number before you end the conversation to make it seem as though that's not all you are after. Once you intuitively push pass getting her number, you'll see that it's almost the same accomplishment as getting her name, almost minuscule.
/r/seduction29/11/11 10:38 PM
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I agree
/r/seduction29/11/11 10:17 PM
1

I think you're missing the point. This illustrates that 'attractive' men, do what they feel like doing because of their frame. They aren't worried about the consequences or fear of embarrassment. You don't have to be rich or famous to have this mindset. If OP sends her, he could approach her nonchalantly or give her the cold shoulder, nothing lost nothing gained at that point; he already fucked up by adding her. I think it helps.
/r/seduction29/11/11 06:55 PM
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This is approach anxiety. No look. -Approach her if she's cute. 1st look - Even better, approach her. 2nd look - Why haven't you approached her yet? 3rd look - Maybe borderline creepy if you haven't been flirting with the eyes. 4th look - I hope you have a good memory and lotion when you add her to the spank bank tonight.
/r/seduction29/11/11 06:49 PM
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Hence the upboats.
/r/seduction23/11/11 05:27 PM
4

I don't like the notion of 'it wasn't meant to be.' This implies to me that there is something out there greater than myself controlling who I end up with, and this is a little wayward of what seduction is. Maybe two people aren't compatible, but I don't think people are or are not meant to be with one another.
/r/seduction22/11/11 03:09 AM
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too
/r/seduction22/11/11 03:05 AM
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I think it's the pursuit. But I don't know. But it's always been the pursuit more than the pussy for me.
/r/seduction17/11/11 03:29 AM
1

Not sure what you are asking.
/r/seduction17/11/11 02:29 AM
2

I don't know if this even concerns your question, but I want to say this anyways. "Cogito Ergo Sum." One of my favorite quotes. It makes me think of the movie "The Matrix." It is one single truth that we hold. This is my world, and I just let everyone else live in it. At first this might come off selfish, but the truth is, no one will ever do more for you, than you can do for yourself. Chasing women, doing the pickup, it's a hobby. It's nothing more than an interest at this point in my life, I a…
/r/seduction17/11/11 02:29 AM
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'I don't know what's better Getting laid or getting paid But I know when I'm getting one The Other's getting Away" -Kanye West But the truth is women will chase you once you stop chasing them, they love money.
/r/seduction17/11/11 02:20 AM
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Why the fuck do you deserve not to be Happy? That's the question you should be asking yourself. No one, no thing will ever make you happy as you will. In fact, I can't even tell you what happiness truly is, but I'll be damned if I don't deserve it just like everyone else.
/r/seduction15/11/11 04:21 AM
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As a good dancer, I think I will put my two cents in about the dance floor. I generally go to a lot of salsa clubs, but I think it works anywhere and anytime. First off, 'Picking Your Target'. My first choice would be someone who is sitting but wants to dance. They will give off signs such as moving to the music, tapping their feet, etc. Even though finding a woman on the dance floor is fine, I have a lot more success of those not yet dancing. I'll explain later. 'Starting to Dance With Your Tar…
/r/seduction13/11/11 08:34 PM
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YES!!!!
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:41 PM
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"I'll be back again tomorrow", with a big smile. While it does mean a lot, it doesn't necessarily mean wait til tomorrow to act. Things come up in life, and she might lose that attraction that you so fervidly built up. It would've been so easy to say, "What if I want to see you before then?" which leads itself into asking for her number or she'll give it to you. Or use anything else. I'm just saying this because there have been plenty of times when I have anticipated meeting a stranger again for…
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:24 PM
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But this to me is where seduction and seddit come in handy. It teaches you inner game. It promotes that feeling of self worth and the attitude that you can and will accomplish it all. You have to believe in yourself, or no one else will. Seddit is a little of a circle jerk, and it should be like that. Men helping other men feel proud and bolstering each other for greater things. Believe me, you are far greater than you know.
/r/seduction03/11/11 10:40 PM
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So you are telling me that when you find a guy attractive, you tell them straight up? I'm not trying to be sarcastic, but I'd really like to know how that turns out for you being a female.
/r/seduction03/11/11 03:48 AM
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I hate to say it, but this is not how the world works...most of the time. I've been there when all you want is the bs to end, and someone to just admit to the other how they feel. I've done it, you've done it, we've all done it one time or another, but this sin't how things work with attraction. Our society has built up 'rules' or rather 'guidelines' that direct how to interact within attraction. I understand your frustration, but if you can't beat them, join them.
/r/seduction03/11/11 03:32 AM
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LMAO. I think I like the subreddit because I can interact with like minded people. I went skydiving (no tandem) 3 weeks ago, took my motorcycle safety course this weekend, and also pickup. I have people asking me why I get involved in all these things, and I simply tell them 'I want to start living'. What is life without risk, and what bigger risk are there than pickup, where failure is an almost certainty. Playing it safe has never been my style. Good to know there are others out there.
/r/seduction31/10/11 05:04 PM
1

Man, when I figure this out, I'll let you know.
/r/seduction27/10/11 01:15 AM
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Haha. I laugh as I read this because I see a lot of me when I read it. Well, besides the selfish part it doesn't seem to be that bad. I don't laugh at shit that's not funny. I'm in fact a little selfish myself and I am rather blunt. But I really like who I am. It's good that you recognize these 'flaws' and that is the most important step. The next one is working towards each step. I can't tell you how to do this because I'm not a life coach. But remember this. People will dislike you regardless.…
/r/seduction25/10/11 10:05 PM
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To play the devil's advocate, I know of people who have met their wife/husband through work. It would probably be best to be subtle about everything, to the point where you can deny the hell out of anything that might be questionable, as you were just being friendly. "well if it doesn't work out, then it will be awkward at the work place, and I don't wanna deal with that" This might be an excuse that she doesn't want to date you. Might not be, I dunno.
/r/seduction25/10/11 02:00 AM
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And how'd each one go?
/r/seduction24/10/11 02:17 PM
2

Sure you have something to contribute. When was the last time you talked to a complete stranger in hopes of seducing her, with even a single hello?
/r/seduction23/10/11 05:31 PM
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I hate to be an ass, but you are wrong. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ Edit: So downvote me for info that's actually there...
/r/seduction21/10/11 01:05 PM
2

Well since you asked, and I don't really disagree with your definition, but this is what I tell myself. Game: Getting past your self to become the person deep down you really want to be. Realizing that bravery or cowardice are not natural traits, and they are something that can be learned AND forgotten. Like everything else you learn, it takes practice and FAILURES (i think a lot of people don't understand for you to actively learn, you must actively fail). That's my GAME.
/r/seduction21/10/11 12:45 PM
1

And by appropriate time you mean sometime later today or you should have texted her the night you got it with a simple "It was nice talking to you." But what time do you consider to be appropriate?
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:02 PM
1

But if you like it too much and it's causing problems in your life, seduction should not be a priority.
/r/seduction13/10/11 08:03 PM
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As someone who has partied a lot and has been drunk any more, I can't agree more with the title. HOWEVER, there is a balance as there is with all things. It's ok to drink to loosen up a bit, but don't get drunk; you slur your words, you kino too often and too much, and other stupid mistakes. Believe, you are half as suave, if that, as you think you are drunk. There is a diminishing return limit on the amount that you drink. No when to stop, but don't be afraid to have a little fun. Not everyone …
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:55 PM
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Why in hell is this comment being downvoted?
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:38 PM
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How about removing post after a certain time period (i.e. One day) that don't evolve into something greater than a basic shut and close question?
/r/seduction13/10/11 05:30 PM
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This is great. To add to this, a personal mantra of mine stolen from Mirianne Williamson: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won'…
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:35 PM
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I agree. It's not the best to get oneitis or just pursue one girl. But the TRUTH is, every girl is different as regard to the situation. I could be pursuing 3 girls at one time and this one girl is just fucking sick nasty at her own game. The basics won't suffice and she's countering the best shit I'm throwing at her. I'm asking seddit for advice, even though it seems I have oneitis, the truth maybe I like the challenge of this ONE girl and want to conquer the shit out of her. Or they could just…
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:24 PM
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That's not the point. If he had any inclination of taking her out, he should've gone ahead with it.
/r/seduction11/10/11 10:43 PM
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I cursory read through this article, just reading the bolded points. Having read just that, I feel as though he secretly watches me and knows everything I've been doing recently.
/r/seduction11/10/11 07:34 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily neg her. Girl says to me: I'm unique. I say to girl with a slight snicker, "What makes you think you are unique?" She then starts qualifying herself to you. You tease her about it later whatever quality she says. Fishing for compliments is a sign of insecurities. You don't want to further vex her by exposing her insecurities more.
/r/seduction11/10/11 07:21 PM
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I'd have to agree. Personally, I find some women attractive and then lose attraction instantly based on certain personality traits. The opposite has happened, but quite less often. I do understand that if a girl doesn't initially like me, I shouldn't be busting my balls to change her mind. I also k ow that over the years I've become more attractive and sexier, stepping up my maturity and inner game, and the same ladies that once blew me off are showing interest in me. Attraction is a funny thing…
/r/seduction10/10/11 05:48 PM
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I agree.
/r/seduction06/10/11 06:13 PM
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Thanks, somehow I put stars twice.
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:03 PM
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I know your comment is in the best interest of the OP, but I think it's more harmful than anything. If he wants to talk to 100 girls a day, why say 'No, you're not ready for that'. It may be unrealistic, but the more experience he gets the better. As long as it doesn't have an adverse effect on his life, he should do it. The old saying, "Even if you shoot for the moon and miss, you might land in the stars".
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:18 PM
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"We build up strength, not by thinking that we have become stronger, but by enduring those things which force us to be stronger. Muscle is built only after you break it down. To adapt, the body has to get stronger and bigger, better than it was before. It gets worse before it gets better, but it gets much better." -mytuppence
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:49 AM
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To be honest, it sounds like she's been in relationships where she either a) cheated b) suddenly lost interest and moved on or c) she doesn't feel any emotional attachment to you and she feels that you do knowing that she doesn't. My words of advice would to not get emotionally attached.
/r/seduction05/10/11 10:48 PM
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I don't know why you were downvoted. The best way to reply to a comment is with a simple Thank You and smile.
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:24 PM
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then it goes right back to standard levels.
/r/seduction02/10/11 03:28 AM
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relevant to number 6
/r/seduction02/10/11 03:27 AM
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My response to this would be that most females when they meet you are not down to fuck. Even the slutty and loose girls that fuck every other guy on the planet might not want to sleep with you the first few times you meet. Your job as a PUA is to make them want to sleep with you. Create and escalate that sexual tension using a number of different methods. As far as outright signs I only know of one: she says she wants you to fuck her right now. If you're not 100% sure whether or not to make a mo…
/r/seduction28/09/11 06:55 PM
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Haha. This made me laugh. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:22 PM
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Well I have the same problem as you, except on the opposite spectrum. I'm 5'3 and believe me, you have it better. You shouldn't be leaning in when trying to show interest, but if you can't hear them I think it might be ok to lean in and tell them to speak up. Or just tell them to speak up first. Secondly, you could use this as an invitation to bring them to a quieter place. "I can't hear you, we should go over there and speak.". I was told yesterday how short I am. She actually said, "are you re…
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:37 PM
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I would suggest you don't ask her out to dinner. If you're in a lvl 100 class I'm guessing you're not 21 yet. Dinner is a little too formal. Dinner to me says, I am seriously considering dating you and making you my girlfriend. I always enjoy an interactive activity like bowling, pool, mini-golf perhaps. It also seems like you are getting a case of one-itis. Who cares if she turns you down, and she acts weird. Even if it wasn't assigned seating, it's your seat and she should move if she feels aw…
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:53 AM
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I'm going to have to go against what most people are saying this thread as far as calling and don't text. In this day and age, calling is a little formal for someone you recently met. And texting should have two goals in mind. Build rapport and set up a date. Don't beat around the bush and ask her out after teasing her slightly. Don't drag it out. I was listening to something today about this exactly. Send her a text message asking her to meet sometime during the week (not the weekend). Three di…
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:46 AM
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Do what you need to do. The museum could be a good place for a first meeting depending on the girl. Go with your gut. You'll learn by experience.
/r/seduction24/09/11 06:34 PM
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Umm, I really don't know what to say but this is a lot bit bitchy. I don't think anyone should project their ego as you say these guys do, but as to the gym rats with low v-neck shirts? I wear low v-neck shirts and I think I'm in pretty good shape. You assume you know who this type of person is without any knowledge about him. This is no better than when so called HBs shut down AFCs for no reason but that they aren't the gym rats. From what I have ascertained, you think you're pretty hot shit si…
/r/seduction24/09/11 03:51 AM
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"hey, I'm going to the art museum, if you have nothing to do you should come along" if you have nothing to do. hey, I'm going to the art museum, you should come along The museum is open to people and you have plenty of things to talk about there. Much better than a movie where u have to sit quiet or whisper throughout. Ask her what she thinks of the art, then tease her on her opinion. The museum will be a cornucopia of items to talk about. But at the same time I feel a museum might be a little m…
/r/seduction24/09/11 03:43 AM
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I agree. She has no reason to go out with you. You have no rapport with this girl. Seduce her somewhat. Give her strong eye contact. A sexy smile. Talk to her after class along with her friends. (if they are interested in her at all, the will undermine you as any MORE competition is bad so be confident). Number close if u can hold a conversation for more than 2-3 minutes.
/r/seduction23/09/11 08:24 PM
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I can't tell you what breakfast means to her or you or anyone else. I can tell you it doesn't matter what it is, it matters where it's going. Bring your game and if she's receptive, escalate. If not, on to the next one. Good luck player.
/r/seduction23/09/11 08:15 PM
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I agree. I always thought a first "date" should be something she can tag along. Something you would enjoy doing without her being there.
/r/seduction23/09/11 04:20 AM
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That's cool that this happened and you got to experience it. It happens to the best of us, but the very best of us learn from our mistakes, and the mistakes of others. -You asked her out on a traditional dinner date. This is way too formal for a first date, IMO. You are 21 and you go to college. The has to be something a little more interactive and less "I want to seriously date you" vibe. You said she wasn't the "one." You're 21, you have plenty of time to find the one, and i'll give you that l…
/r/seduction23/09/11 04:01 AM
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I didn't mean that you couldn't be a good guy, but more leaning towards the aggressor, and Not being a complete dick. For example: I'm talking to a lady in a club, she ask for me to buy her a drink. I decline and suggest she buys o e first, "Ladies first,". She gets and attitude and walks away. This can feel a little dickish if you are use to buying women things.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:56 PM
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