Thid has happened almost 11th time by now in last 5 months. I keep gettting first dates and then rejected afterwards. Some of these dates were from okc, festival or meetup.

In 7 out of 11 cases I did kino as well. I must admit though I couldn't tell if girls had similar feelings as I had developed within minutes of meeting asking them out.

I thought I had great connection with a girl I met at a festival. We danced together and later she came to meet me. I bought her gift on first date. She went cold after that and did not return my call at all.

Today, I called her again and asked what went wrong. She told me I was looking for girlfriend but she is not looking for boyfriend. This girl is 23.

I don't have any guidance or help to ask for so posting in this sub. FWIW, I am 29.