Let me tell you about A. A has showed interested in me for a while. As I'm working on applying my game in the outside world and not just reading about it on the interwebs, I decided to go after her.

Talk for a while then ask her out. She seems very willing, but she had to travel that weekend so she was unable to go out. Oh well, I'll ask her again soon.

Being my busy self, "soon" turned out to be longer than I anticipated. A starts ignoring me. I find this weird. I think about asking her what's up, but I feel like that would look too pushy.

After opening up to a mutual friend about it, he tells me she's found a new guy she really likes. Because of this, she's decided to cut all communication with me. A red flag had just been raised in the front lawn of the white house.

If she ever wants to try to come back to me, it ain't happening. I've got so many other options of girls who understand you don't just cut off contact with someone just because they're not personally useful to you anymore. You better bet if A tries to come back to me, it's a big fat "no" from me.

I've got a whole summer AND four years of college ahead of me to play with, I'm nowhere short of new opportunities. Remember friends, don't put up with her bullshit just because she's hot.