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You’re not trying to seduce them
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:47 PM
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Oh yeah that sucks. Well, hypnosis is legal. Pay a hypnotherapist to hypnotize you to be confident with women. Worked for me, I did it once in 2019 and had about 40 women that year (not counting paid), many of whom were regular fwb. Really helped me a lot.
/r/seduction12/06/25 08:25 PM
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That is a good point. It’s another kind of rut.
/r/seduction11/06/25 10:56 AM
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I’m not saying forever, even once might be all it takes, just to take off that edge. For sure, don’t give up! But if you say that he has to earn it but he’s still a desperate simp who scares women away with the sheer urgency to get laid, another few years of failure isn’t going to do him any favors. It doesn’t count as a win. It’s just a temporary measure to ease off his thirst. If you’re dying of thirst in the desert, it’s the oasis you need - but muddy water with shit floating in it might give…
/r/seduction11/06/25 09:27 AM
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And The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by the same author
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:37 AM
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This sounds harsh but I say it in kindness, bear with me and don’t take it personally: it’s because you’re a desperate simp who never gets laid. If you had been laid recently, you would give much less of a fuck. Unfortunately because of this situation, you’re not getting laid. 🔁 Ad infinitum. So what to do? Break the cycle! Pay for sex. Then your body isn’t desperate anymore, isn’t screaming at you to simp. So you can relax and be more confident because the urgency has faded as your physical nee…
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:35 AM
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Don’t necessarily approach women to hook up, but approach them for no goal at all, other than to flirt, make her smile, make her blush. Just practice being a charmer, and then leave without getting her number like you dgaf. Because with the goal removed, there’s no rejection, so you’re free to do whatever. Who knows you might get a girlfriend anyway just because she likes you.
/r/seduction01/06/25 04:31 AM
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When I went on my first date with my ex she said she loved Led Zeppelin. Oh really? Which song is your favorite? All of them. She had never heard of them and was just trying to impress me. I still took her home that night because I just wanted to get my dick wet but sure, it didn’t look impressive. Never, ever do that shit, you just look so dumb and insecure.
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:28 PM
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The motherfuckin’ Kaleidoscope Man.
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:40 AM
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Yeah those guys are probably super multi-faceted too, but in different ways from OP.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:42 AM
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Met her at the train station near my home, it was a five minute walk to my place and we got naked the moment we walked through the door. Having said that, we did already talk earlier that night when we matched on Tinder.
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:10 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s not emotional for her, but the emphasis here is not on her romantic feelings for you, but on her arousal. If you don’t get her aroused then yeah she’s not going to develop feelings for you either. If it’s not sexual, it’s platonic. You don’t have to be a player, maybe you want a serious relationship. But you should still be flirty and sexual from day one. Maybe she doesn’t want to get physical on the first few dates, that’s okay. You can still get her wet, you can still get h…
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:58 PM
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You got it backwards, the cart before the horse. Women normally get horny first and fall in love later. If you flirt with her and get her wet during the date, then show her a great time in the bedroom, the emotional stuff will follow. Let her get emotional about how amazing your dick is and she’ll associate that affection with you. Then when she’s crazy about you, you can let her know that your feelings for her match her feelings for you and start a relationship then. If you go straight to telli…
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:06 PM
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I’d go further than that. It’s not enough to fuck her, you have to make her cum, as much as possible. The more orgasms she has and the more powerful they are, the better. You want her to go crazy thinking about you? You need to rock her world in bed. If you’re the best sex she ever had, she’ll think about you even when she’s fucking other guys long after you break up.
/r/seduction29/10/24 09:45 AM
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If you didn’t see her nips, it wasn’t flashing lmao
/r/seduction23/08/24 10:12 AM
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If you have chemistry, then yes of course.
/r/seduction21/08/24 11:21 PM
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Buy her dinner first. Then suggest you go back to your place. Make sure you tidy up the house first though. No used condoms lying around, not a good look.
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:08 AM
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Becky, lemme smash
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:07 AM
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She’s keeping her options open until she meets you. If it’s ambiguous and can be interpreted different ways, then she has flexibility and plausible deniability.
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:38 AM
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Never had a MFF threesome but I always suspected this might be the case.
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:11 AM
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Tf is minmaxxing?
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:53 AM
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I love sex, casual or otherwise. But I do enjoy it much better when (a) we’re not wearing a condom, which I only allow in a committed relationship and (b) when she’s so fucking wet she’s like a water slide, and that happens a lot more often when she’s in love, takes a bit of rapport. I’ve had crazy, passionate sex with strangers and I’ve had dull starfish sex with girlfriends. But all the best sex I ever had in my life was all with women who were emotionally invested in me.
/r/seduction19/07/24 05:20 PM
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I broke up with my ex about ten months ago now, because she had anger management problems. We had to meet up for something practical this weekend just gone and ended up having sex. It’s not getting back with the ex that’s the struggle for me, it’s staying apart! We’re like two magnets, we just snap together when we get too close. She wants to stay friends but I know it’s impossible, every time I see her I just want to jump her bones. So I’d much rather just not see her.
/r/seduction10/07/24 12:45 AM
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You didn’t pull any girl for a good 5 years… ffs kid five years ago you were 13. It’s totally okay if you’re just getting started now, until recently you were a minor. First thing you need to do is chill. Get your world view right. At your age as long as you intrinsically understand that ladies are people and get horny and lonely like we do, and not fish or deer to catch when going out hunting or something, you’re on a good path. Treat them like people, not like a conquest, remember you’re on th…
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:15 AM
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Right. I’m looking for a girlfriend but I’m not celibate while I’m looking.
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:41 AM
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You would be much better off learning to dance instead. I recommend salsa, bachata and kizomba.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:51 AM
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Come join me here in Bangkok. The cost of living is super cheap here and many women want an exotic farang.
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:13 AM
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I only had two my type. One chubby girl and one Asian.
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:11 AM
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I was surprised how many women I rejected, the vast majority.
/r/seduction18/06/24 02:00 AM
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You just gotta give her better dick than the other guys. Make her cum a few times, she’s yours. The bar isn’t very high.
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:05 AM
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A good conscience is not the only benefit of telling the truth straight up. It also saves you from drama down the line. Just a few days ago I had some lady cry in my bedroom because she saw a packet of condoms (meant for her) and assumed I was sleeping with others (well duh of course). It was only my second date with her and I was genuinely trying to find a girlfriend but I hadn’t told her I was multitasking so to speak. I tried to comfort her for a bit and then kicked her out. Save yourself the…
/r/seduction18/06/24 12:44 AM
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No it totally makes sense in the context
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:44 AM
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Thanks, I’d never have guessed that. I thought it was something relevant to dating or pickup!
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:39 AM
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Damn fucking acronyms. Not all of us are Americans in their 20s. What is RNG?
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:11 AM
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You need to stretch your words out longer and add emphasis in random places. Heyyyyyy… soooo… how’s your day going? I bet you’ve been working soooo haaaard today and need some time to relaaaax. (Lmao jk)
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:45 AM
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Right! Thanks
/r/seduction13/06/24 12:19 AM
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What does LJBF stand for? Gotta spell out your acronyms dude
/r/seduction12/06/24 08:51 AM
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I was randomly talking about threesomes with some girl on a dating app and she asked me if that was what I was looking for from her. I told her I would be absolutely delighted if the two of us got involved in a ‘twosome’. She told me that made her incredibly wet and she’d totally be down, too bad we weren’t in the same city at that time.
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:19 AM
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Actually tricking yourself into delusions of grandeur is one of the best ways to boost your confidence. Tell yourself that every woman thinks you’re hot and wants to fuck you. Your brain knows it’s a lie but you tell that part to shut up. Believe the lie. Because confidence is sexy. Convincing yourself that you are sexy is a self-fulfilling prophecy. How will women ever think you’re sexy if you don’t think it first?
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:53 AM
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I would add, gently mention that you’re seeing other women [BEFORE not after] the first time you have sex with them. Be a gentleman, let them know how it is. You might lose a few fwb that way but in the long run it’s worth it because you avoid drama at getting caught, and don’t leave a trail of broken hearts behind you. Most women will appreciate the transparency and if you’re amazing in bed, they won’t care too much. In fact if you’re really fucking good in bed, they won’t be surprised at all t…
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:36 AM
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You’re assuming the lady dumped the guy. But if the dude dumped her, he obviously had his reasons. He should write them down so he doesn’t forget what they are when he gets hornely.
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:28 AM
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When I was in my early 20s I worked behind the counter at a Nando’s Chicken fast food restaurant. My coworker was such a horny dude, when he talked to women you could see that sexy spark in his eye, he ooozed sex. He hardly had to say anything, he’d just look them in the eye and they’d get wet. Honestly it was greasy but it was also really fucking contagious. It put women under his spell and it wasn’t surprising at all. He even smelled like sex.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:01 PM
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Mark Cunningham, Renegade Hypnotist. His content is absolute gold, the real deal.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:49 PM
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Why don’t you want them to know you’re hitting on them? That’s silly. You want them to know. But you want them to like it. You want to make them horny and wet, but also feel comfortable and safe with you. Be polite. Be charming. Don’t talk about sexual things, let it simmer unsaid, she can see the horny look in your eye and that’s much more powerful than any compliment. Use double entendres, connotations, euphemisms and implications instead of talking about anything sexual directly. And even tho…
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:22 PM
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I also paid him to hypnotize me to be good at hypnosis, so now sometimes when I find women who consent to it I hypnotize them to orgasm whenever they suck me, stuff like that. There’s all sorts of creative ways you can make women cum through hypnosis. Anyway when he hypnotized me to be confident with women he made me choose three men (they were allowed to be fictional) who were confident with women. I chose Mick Jagger, George Clooney, and the main character from Californication Hank Moody (play…
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:52 PM
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I got a hypnotist to hypnotize me to be confident with women. After that I had a long string of one night stands and after some experience, a network of horny fwb who were okay with not being my only. I had a girlfriend for four years and got a bit rusty, but I broke up with her six months ago and am slowly getting back in the swing of things. I had two dates this week (both came home with me) and four more dates booked (one of them a second date with Tuesday’s girl).
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:17 AM
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Be incredible in bed. Make someone cum a lot, really hard. She compliments you a lot and comes back for more. Your confidence is boosted. Voilà, it’s a spiral that keeps going up as long as you maintain momentum.
/r/seduction28/05/24 11:56 AM
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Lack of foresight, thinking with the wrong head. Always forgetting how meaningless I feel afterwards, but in the moment it’s just exciting.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:07 AM
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What? This is ridiculous. If you give a shit about any of that then yeah you might lose social value.
/r/seduction01/03/24 08:30 AM
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Me too! He cried about being jealous that she was with me not him. Just next level pathetic. Yet she bought it.
/r/seduction29/02/24 11:37 PM
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Yeah his little bitch game is on point
/r/seduction29/02/24 04:44 AM
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One time I was getting along with a lady in a bar really well and this dude tried to get in. I let him shoot his shot, she wasn’t interested in him at all and just wanted to talk to me, so I figured I’d stay cool. Guess what he did: he broke down crying like a little bitch. Fake tears, because five minutes later she was leaving the club with him and he looked at me like “yeah I know but it worked didn’t it, so fuck you”.
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:42 AM
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Okay firstly your friends are idiots. Don’t lie because it only makes you look worse. There are ways to flirt without asking obscenely personal questions.
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:50 AM
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The few times I’ve ever given dic pics to women who have requested them, they loved the photos but we never ended up in bed together. But I get compliments about it all the time so now if anyone asks I say no, you’ll just have to wait. Don’t peek at your presents before Christmas!
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:47 AM
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Yeah that’s true too. Goddamn it was annoying while I was dating her.
/r/seduction07/02/24 05:22 AM
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We made plans for a date, agreed on it, and then I got busy and didn’t talk to her until the day of the date. I texted her again about the date that evening and she said something along the lines of “wtf? You still want to meet? I’m so sorry I thought you ghosted me so I made other plans for tonight”. So we arranged another date and went from there. Point is, you can’t just arrange a time then ignore them for a week, like you can when organizing a beer with your friends.
/r/seduction07/02/24 03:27 AM
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My first date with my ex, she assumed I ghosted her because I hadn’t texted her in a few days so she made other plans. Had to reschedule. Ended up fucking her on that next first date and we dated for four years but the point is that you have to maintain communication until the date.
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:10 AM
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I go heavy on foreplay and making an effort to make sure she gets satisfied, and it helps that I’m well endowed. I just make her orgasms and overall enjoyment a top priority, over my own.
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:02 AM
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I lean on sex. It’s not easy to get someone in bed but when I have them there, it’s easy sailing. They almost always come back for more (unless I fuck up bad outside the bedroom somehow).
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah, they’re called ‘ruts’.
/r/seduction02/08/23 01:49 AM
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If you’re giving too much of a shit specifically about women, and you haven’t gotten laid in a year or more, try paying for sex once a month or so. You’ll have your needs satisfied so you won’t be too concerned whether women like you or not, and that’ll make you more confident and attractive in general. At the very least you won’t be needy or desperate anymore.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:21 PM
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r/SuddenlyBi
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:30 AM
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Lmao just stop wearing them and if they say you look shorter, deny everything and gaslight
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:27 AM
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Oh totally agree. I always try to fuck on the first date for that exact reason, and I put huge priority on her orgasms and pleasure over mine (always but especially on that first date). Show her a good time and she’s putty in your hands.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:11 AM
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They’re not just gorgeous, they’re also totally into foreigners lol. Teaching English is the easy route, I make 50k baht a month, enough to get by quite comfortably. But I’m learning coding in my spare time, it’d be good to get some online work later.
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:59 PM
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Oh it’s great. The rent here in a month is what I’d pay in a week back in NZ, and I eat out every day. In NZ I can only afford to go to a restaurant once a week.
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:44 PM
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I was already a tesol English teacher so it was no big deal for me. Certainly get the hypnosis though, that helped me a lot.
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:43 PM
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I did multiple things. After I left my ex-wife, I took dance classes. All that bachata and kizomba got me a lot of practice just being with women. Then I moved to Thailand, because dating is so much easier here. I then took hypnotherapy to be more confident with women. Net result: 37 women in a year, a lot of them long term fwb - and met my current fiancée, who is fucking stunning by any guy’s measure.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:58 PM
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You should say: “I’m sorry, I apologize. I was nervous because you’re really attractive but that’s no excuse for acting like a dick. I won’t do it again, pinky promise”. Then blow a kiss and do your best puppy dog eyes.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:48 PM
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If I text my fiancée she might be serving customers and not see it for an hour or two. But then she enthusiastically texts back when she’s ready.
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:14 AM
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My fiancée is stunning. I told her yesterday that I used to be shy around women, she didn’t believe me. That I used to stutter around them. She laughed, thought I was full of shit, joking around. I had about seven fwb when I met her and hooked up with at least a dozen more women before we went exclusive. So that’s how she sees me, a sexual, confident guy.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:08 PM
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Lol this reminds me of those signs at carnivals: “you must be this tall to enjoy the ride”.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:38 AM
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Well she was just my girlfriend back then. I was honest with her from the very first date. I told her I really liked her but I also really liked hooking up with random strangers. She considered her options, thought about it. We jokingly haggled how long before we go exclusive and settled on three months. She put up with it because we get on so well together, I treat her well but as an equal, and I’m good in bed. Later when we were in a LDR she let me pay for sex while we were apart, but only pai…
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:47 AM
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When I was first dating my fiancée I had half a dozen fwb on the side, she didn’t have a problem with it. But I eventually decided I preferred her to the others all added up, and closed the relationship myself.
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:25 AM
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Definitely. Until you give them a whole lot of mind-blowing orgasms, you’re fighting on the back foot, losing her a little more every moment.
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:02 AM
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Never say ‘let’s eat some time’ because then you’ll never meet. She said yes, so organize the date there and then. You have to give an exact time and if she’s busy then she’ll suggest a time, when you have an appointment booked voilà! You have a date.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:30 AM
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Like I said, OLD, online dating. Tinder and ThaiCupid. Just be selective, you’ll easily get 20+ tinder matches a day so you can afford to unmatch sex workers. Be polite and respectful, sexually bold but not crass or crude, you’ll do well.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:57 AM
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She was a challenge! I don’t know ‘where the prettiest ones hang out’ if there is such a place but OLD works in your favour because of the big population and being an exotic foreigner.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:47 AM
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Mostly just Tinder and ThaiCupid. I also found a few adventurous couples on swinger apps.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:47 AM
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Look up Mark Cunningham and Renegade Hypnosis. The man who did me knows him personally.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:37 PM
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I also paid for hypnotherapy in Bangkok, he hypnotized me that I was a total ladies man. It was a whole month’s salary gone in a few hours but it was the best investment I ever made! Before I went to Thailand I did bachata for a year. So the stuttering had reduced before I got to Thailand, but I still hadn’t gotten laid. Also, I started off slow, had some success, and got better at it over time. I didn’t have any hobbies either, I literally just spent all my free time dating.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:30 PM
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Can confirm.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:09 PM
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Don’t go for bar girls then. Go for business owners and smart, successful women.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:09 PM
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I lived in Bangkok for a year, always had about 7 fwb on rotation at any given time except when I had a gf living with me for a while. Slept with 38 different women, not counting paid or ladyboys (I experimented a little, decided I prefer being straight). Plenty of very attractive women were perfectly happy to come straight to my place to fuck without the need for conversation first, though the prettiest ones normally waited until we’d been talking for at least an hour. I got serious with my fav…
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:04 PM
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What he said, except without using the word ‘alpha’. Just say confident. Alpha is lame as shit and anyone who describes themselves as alpha is automatically not alpha.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:40 PM
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“Dude if you ask me that question again I will fucking slap you. Shut the fuck up and kiss me”
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:21 AM
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You know what helped me immensely? Hypnotherapy. I paid a professional hypnotist to hypnotize me that I was a fucking player, that women absolutely loved me and couldn’t get enough of my cock. Three years and 38 women later, still a great investment. The logic is that it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you’re that confident about your own sexuality and you become the amazing lover that you genuinely believe you are, women tend to agree.
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:33 AM
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Honestly I didn’t shed a tear for her, she was really abusive. I’m much happier now thanks! Engaged to a gorgeous young lady with a great sense of humour, incredible smarts and a huge libido. Also, not abusive, we’re great friends. I’m very happy these days. Edit: she’s also very open-minded, she let me pay for sex in her absence while we were in LDR.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:58 AM
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Yep! Left her back in 2016. Best decision ever. Well okay technically I’m not divorced, I left her and we were separated. I wasn’t able to divorce her without a copy of the marriage certificate but then two years after I left her I got a text that she had passed away due to kidney failure, related to a pre-existing condition. So technically I’m a widower, but that’s just as good as divorced. I’m a free man.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:22 AM
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Good luck! All the best. I’m sure she’ll realize how lucky she is.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:02 AM
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Good! Just make it your highest priority to rock her world, and if you can do that, nothing else will matter. You might not be popular but you’ll be popular with her!
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:59 AM
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Absolutely! Yeah I was too fundy Christian back then, I turned down a lot of sex before I got married and lost my virginity at 26. Hardly got laid at all in six years of marriage, so that was a huge mistake.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:36 AM
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If you can get her into bed, you’ve won most of the battle. Then all you need to do is give her five or more orgasms and you’re already in the top 95% of men she’s been with. Learn the magic art of cunnilingus and foreplay, make an effort to please her, that’s much more important than your own enjoyment. Until you’ve gotten her into bed it’s an uphill battle. Once you’ve given her 5 orgasms in one night, she’ll be a lot more open to you, it’s smooth sailing from there. That’s your mission, that’…
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:33 AM
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I turned down a few threesomes because I have a girlfriend and she wasn’t part of the picture. I don’t regret it because she’s my fiancée now. I would still like another opportunity one day though, with her and another woman.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:58 PM
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Nothing to talk about isn’t so much of an issue if you both agree it’s just casual.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:17 PM
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I hooked up with some women in their early 20s a few years ago at 35. Great sex! Conversation was a little dry though, prefer women in their 30s for that, so we just stayed casual as fwb. I don’t go introducing my fwb to my friends and family so it’s okay, but if someone I was seeing seriously was within ten years of my age either way no one would have a problem with that. My most previous girlfriend was eight years younger than me, my ex wife nine years older than me. No one gave a shit. My cur…
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:16 PM
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One thing you eventually learn is that there is such a thing as bad sex. There’s also good sex with bad people. Eventually you’ll have good sex with good people and great sex with awesome people and you’ll love it but in the meantime take what you can get and enjoy it, don’t take bad people too seriously. When you get to a point where you will turn down good sex because she’s batshit crazy and a negative energy in your life that you seriously don’t need, you’ll know you’re maturing. But if you h…
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:20 PM
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Okay here’s a little controversial solution to the problem of the desperation: visit a hooker once a month to take the edge off. That way you’re more comfortable in front of women, touching women, and you’re not so attached to outcomes because you’re getting by as it is. It’s not something I’m proud of, but it helped me a lot to build my confidence and get out of my drought.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:33 PM
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One thing that helped me a lot was randomly talking with women with the intention of flirting with them but no real goal beyond that. Not trying to get laid, not trying to get a girlfriend. Just going for a flirty conversation, that’s all. I had a lot of fun. One time I chatted up a girl on the bus and she told me she had a boyfriend, so I gave her a wink wink nudge nudge and asked if he was getting the job done. I was just fucking around to see what I could get away with. She felt relaxed with …
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:30 AM
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In my 30s I always feel like I’m surrounded by kiddies at the club. Omg one time I went drinking with some younger friends and they wanted to do karaoke. They sang S Club 7, can you imagine? They might as well have sung the theme song for Barney the Dinosaur. That shit is for preschoolers, changemymind.jpg. I don’t do night clubs anymore. Pubs maybe, for a game of pool. But not nightclubs.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:00 AM
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All the best! Hope you succeed dude.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:51 PM
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u/MikeHaines
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:46 PM
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Do I post here? Not really I just randomly comment as I browse my feed, like any other subreddit. I learned a lot from a guy called Mike Haines, first read his stuff on Reddit, then joined his email list and eventually bought some of his stuff. Good content.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:54 PM
4

Absolutely. Dating is so much easier after you’ve given her a good time. I watched some tutorials on pornhub, helped a lot with my cunnilingus and fingering game. Honestly some women will cum ten or more times in one night if you know what you’re doing. They’ll be eating out of your hand after that. I still remember one girl, she was a little overweight and I was tired so I couldn’t get it up for her. I still enjoyed her company and was attracted to her so I just fingered her and ate her out for…
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:35 PM
9

Absolutely. Every first date is a mission to seduce her. If I can’t achieve that on my first date, I often don’t bother going on a second because the chemistry just isn’t there. I’m engaged now, I blew her mind in bed on the first date and it was plain sailing from there.
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:42 PM
4

I (37m) took hypnotherapy that women were absolutely crazy about me and craving my dick, and that this was true regardless of what they were outwardly showing or saying. It helped a lot, I shagged 37 women in less than a year and a half, many of them regular fwb, a few girlfriends, and the most attractive of them all is now my fiancée.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:15 AM
3

I approached a girl a little while ago because I thought she was my old flatmate from years ago. She told me to fuck off before I could even say hello, so I politely told her I mistook her for someone else and excused myself. I was shaken for about ten minutes after that, and I wasn’t even trying to pick her up. So good on you for being a normal human being! Kudos.
/r/seduction29/01/21 02:35 AM
1

My current girlfriend is a really beautiful girl with a strong sex drive and great tits. She lets me open my side of the relationship to fuck who I like, she has no problem with it as long as I don’t leave her. My first date with her consisted of a long series of ‘rejections’ - but my frame was that she was not rejecting me, she was seducing me by making it a challenge for me. I thoroughly enjoyed the date and the challenges she presented to me. It was not easy bringing her back to my place, it …
/r/seduction20/07/20 11:30 PM
1

Suit yourself. I wouldn’t recommend anything I haven’t done and haven’t gotten results from
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:09 PM
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Nah dude it’s funny but I’m serious. Half an hour of that and you’ll have convinced your subconscious that you’re legit. It’s self-hypnosis, basically.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:07 PM
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Yeah I know. Try meditating before you go out. Sit down on the floor with your legs crossed, set a timer on your phone for half an hour, and tell yourself how much women crave your dick until the timer goes off.
/r/seduction20/07/20 08:13 PM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:32 PM
0

Imagine getting laid on the regular
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:32 PM
9

Yep! Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:55 AM
0

You’re welcome! Believe it my friend. They’re wet (/hard?) they’re just not letting on
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:30 AM
44

Oh for sure
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:28 AM
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In my opinion, you should always assume that they want you bad, until proven otherwise. It gives you the cocky vibe you need, it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:09 AM
2

Yep. Not about to risk my life and that of my friends, family and fellow residents just to get my dick wet. Grazie for the healthy reminder.
/r/seduction04/04/20 01:40 AM
3

Oh she agreed to it from the beginning.
/r/seduction12/03/20 01:10 PM
6

Yeah I got some little std called Tricomoniasis and gave it to my girlfriend before I knew I had it. She said it’s like catching a cold, for your genitals - no big deal - but we both had to stop having sex for a week while we took our medicine. I’m beginning to think I should go exclusive with her, before I give her something worse.
/r/seduction12/03/20 10:19 AM
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Time to go exclusive with my girlfriend I guess
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:46 AM
2

Only kills old people, FTFY You can still get it, and then accidentally give it to your parents
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:46 AM
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Placebo is the mind, hypnosis is the mind... I didn’t take any pills
/r/seduction12/02/20 04:01 PM
1

Spelling and grammar go a long way when trying to promote your blog/subreddit.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:25 PM
1

Well OP asked, when did it become easy, and it became easy when I came to Thailand. So yes of course, why do you think I came here? Lol. When you play a computer game, you start on level 1 and upgrade your stats until you’re ready to go to level 2. You don’t start off on level 30 and keep dying over and over. Make your way there gradually. So I started in Thailand, got some experience. Soon I can go somewhere a little more challenging for level 2.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:12 PM
1

I would never bring it up. Wait for her to bring it up and continue fucking other women for as long as you possibly can.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:08 PM
2

JBYS is the shittiest advice ever. Don’t just be yourself. Be the best fucking version of yourself that you can muster. Be in a great mood. Constantly push yourself to hang out with women so you get used to female company, and push yourself to say more and more outrageous shit - flirting and having fun, not giving a fuck about what people think of you. JBYS is an excuse not to better yourself, make an effort or take action. Don’t do that. Be yourself, but be the most awesome you possible.
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:29 AM
5

I found someone from “Renegade Hypnosis” who was trained by Mark Cunningham, who is famous for hypnotic seduction.
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:40 AM
0

I don’t validate myself by talking to her. I validate myself by making her cum. The more times I make her cum in one night, the more of a man I feel. I hit 20 once, but that was mostly by hand.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:53 AM
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I got a professional hypnotist to hypnotize me that I was a fucking player who was amazing with women. It worked wonders. That was a year ago and since then I’ve hooked up with 30 different women. Totally worth the investment.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:49 AM
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I lost my virginity when I got married at 26, and for six years of marriage we had sex maybe 3-4 times a year. Then I left her and for the first year after I left her I had none, then the next year I had a little bit, maybe once a month. Very little sex. Then I moved to Thailand to teach English a year ago, at age 34, I’m 35 now. On average, I have sex about once a day, and I’ve had sex with 32 different women since I got here. That’s unpaid of course: fwb, ons, gf etc. I’ve been loving the play…
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:44 AM
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How well I do in bed depends a lot on who I’m with. With some girls I’m below average, I cum in two minutes, she doesn’t cum until I finish her by hand. Other girls will cum 5-6 times before I do just by dick alone, and think I’m amazing. Some girls I couldn’t make them cum, so we drifted apart. Other girls fall in love with me because I can make them cum 12 times in one night. I take women’s orgasms super seriously, I always do my best but with some girls I just don’t do that well. Sexual compa…
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:36 AM
2

No, “average sex this one time” is not the end goal. “Lots of amazing sex on the regular” is.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:26 AM
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Nah dude. It’s much better being able to have sex 5 nights a week because you have half a dozen fwb who love your dick available to come over at a moment’s notice if you text them to invite them over. Otherwise I’d you suck at sex, you’re limited to one night stands only. Regular fwbs are my bread and butter!
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:22 AM
1

The other night I took a tinder girl out, and she didn’t give me any eye contact. She seemed to be hiding behind her hair. But I led her back to my place all the same and fucked her silly, she loved it. I don’t think her lack of eye contact meant she wasn’t attracted to me at all.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:49 PM
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I disagree. Women are attracted to people who know they’re already attractive. So always assume - even if incorrectly - that they’re attracted to you. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you’re a dude with testicles and testosterone, they will be attracted anyway, to some degree. They’re straight, they like men, they like penises. You’re a man, you have a penis. But your confidence in that fact makes it real. Makes it stronger. Always assume attraction. You need to believe that all women want yo…
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:47 PM
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Yeah you have to let them find out for themselves
/r/seduction27/08/19 04:46 AM
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One thing I did regularly a year or so ago that really helped me was to give women compliments with absolutely no expectations or next steps. No goal of getting their number, no attempts to take them home, no pressure. Just make their day with a genuine compliment and move on. By this exercise I got used to having women really enjoy what I have to say, so I became less nervous in giving them compliments. Eventually I can give very sexual compliments and not give a fuck, like “holy shit girl, tha…
/r/seduction06/06/19 03:01 PM
1

Wow cool man thanks. Good tips
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:00 AM
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Oh that’s good dude I’m happy for you. I’d love to be able to dance with someone naked in the living room. I guess there’s two main reasons why I don’t do it. Personally I’m not yet confident enough to flirt with people I know I’ll be seeing regularly in the future, I’m worried I’ll make it awkward, not with girls I sleep with but with girls who reject me. It feels much safer flirting with someone I know I’ll never see again if it backfires. Secondly, at this stage in my life, I much prefer fuck…
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:22 AM
1

I recommend dance lessons like bachata or kizomba. You get to meet lots of women and get used to being with them. Eventually it’s like ‘don’t shit where you eat”, don’t sleep with girls you dance with - but the social interaction is really helpful, spending so much time with women.
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:27 PM
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Yeah op you should have fucked her ages ago
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:23 PM
23

Not with that destructive attitude
/r/seduction29/05/19 11:50 PM
1

I’d be like “no sorry I don’t pay for sex” and move on
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:42 PM
1

Cheating is soooo alpha /s Hey man I can afford to say no to sex because if I’m not fucking her that weekend I’m fucking some other random girl. I don’t do the girlfriend thing I just have fwb and one night stands, and I normally invite the girl straight to my condo for the first date, I only meet her in public if she seems dtf but is a little too nervous to come straight to my place. I’m not a beta male I just have a conscience.
/r/seduction27/05/19 11:12 PM
6

Will do my Yankee friend
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:01 AM
6

What’s a Jody? And what business does a New Zealander like myself have to do with Sam? He’s not my uncle
/r/seduction27/05/19 08:59 AM
4

Yeah I was gonna have a fwb come over for a weekend of fun last week and she told me she had a boyfriend overseas but needed physical sex while he was away. I canceled the weekend, out of ethics. I didn’t want to be the asshole that made some poor chump have to drown his sorrows.
/r/seduction27/05/19 07:44 AM
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Well, sucks to be you then. If you have to play golf with a handicap, don’t quit golf, just get better at playing. Also get yourself advantages in other areas to compensate, for example I moved to Thailand and now I have a big advantage, being a foreigner. Just because it’s more difficult, doesn’t mean you have to roll over and die. Never give up bro.
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:56 AM
1

Get a job teaching English in Thailand. You will (a) have a job, (b) experience travel and see the world, and (c) have girls coming to your house to fuck almost every night of the week. I totally recommend.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:59 AM
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I was abstinent until I got married at 26. Left my wife at 32 due to dead bedroom, lack of sex. I’m 35 now and don’t want a girlfriend, I just like friends with benefits and one night stands.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:57 AM
2

Yet another reason why it’s better to hook up with girls in their early 20s even if you’re in your 30s.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:56 AM
1

I wasn’t a virgin but had hardly any sex when I left my ex a few years ago. She was the only one I had ever slept with and only a few times a year (hence why I left her). I found it really difficult to bring girls home after that, hard to even talk to them without stuttering, let alone go on a date. But then I moved to Thailand and now I get laid almost every day of the week. I’ve slept with 9 different women in the last six months, it’s been fun.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:53 AM
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Listen to him he’s telling the truth, even if if it sounds a little rude. “Man the fuck up” might just be exactly what you need to hear right now. Be a man. Be masculine. Be Tim the Toolman Taylor. Make the first move, you should be inviting women back to your room every first date you go on, ever.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:45 AM
15

All these negative comments... y’all are missing the point. Anyone can have beautiful eyes if you keep solid eye contact with people.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:58 AM
54

Touch her. Sit next to her, put your arm around her. If she’s cool with that, rub her shoulder. If she’s cool with that, play with her hair, all while focusing on the conversation you’re having with her. If she’s okay with you playing with her hair, see if she’s okay with you lightly brushing your hand across her thigh while you’re chatting. If she’s cool with that, leave your hand on her thigh - obviously focusing on the conversation. If she’s cool with that, rub her thigh while you’re chatting…
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:57 PM
17

I’m totally gonna play it thinking “Playing DS is like getting laid” and that will be my guide how to play the game.
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:15 AM
2

I still have strong feelings for a fwb who dumped me months ago. She was really fucking beautiful and had big D cup tits, with a lovely personality. When I first met her I wanted her as my girlfriend because we got on so well, but she only wanted to be fwb, so I made do with what I had and slept with other women as she told me to. Later she got feelings without telling me and couldn’t handle me sleeping with other women, so dumped me - even though I was ready to stop sleeping with others just to…
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:39 PM
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How is approaching women gay? Unless you're a woman
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:27 PM
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If even you think you're creepy, she's definitely gonna think you're creepy. Have some confidence in yourself man. You're fucking awesome, your talking to her will brighten up her day. That's how you gotta see it.
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:26 PM
9

Mark Manson's Models is a great book.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:19 PM
1

Confidence isn't just attractive to women, it's attractive to everyone. Have you never seen a girl pity herself for being ugly and a loser when she is in fact, in your opinion, gorgeous? It's kind of pathetic. You may still want to bang but only if you're going through a dry spell. Have you ever seen a girl strut across the room like she owns the place? It's sexy.
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:12 AM
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Some prefer it, most reluctantly agree but don't last as a fwb for more than a month or two because they get jealous, fwb isn't their cup of tea and they prefer an exclusive boyfriend. I haven't had anyone not want to see me a second time after telling them that, I always get another lay.
/r/seduction25/04/19 03:08 AM
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Well I usually tell women after the first time we fuck that I'm seeing other women. That if they want to get together again later I would love to but I don't do exclusive relationships and I'm seeing multiple women. If I did a good job on the bed and made them cum a few times they're usually cool with it, or they can adjust to it. Tell them politely and tell them early, like after the first fuck. Sometimes I'm shy and just say it by text. You've only spent one night together so they're not too e…
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:31 AM
3

I recommend taking dance classes. Choose a partner dance where you hold the girl close, like kizomba or bachata. Regular physical contact and social interaction with women, even platonically, will help you a lot imho. Worked wonders for me!
/r/seduction22/04/19 01:12 AM
2

Well done dude keep it up
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:27 AM
1

I don't think good looks are the number one factor but it's definitely an advantage over not looking good. I think you can change her mind if you're not her type but you're gonna have to do really well at seducing her, like playing with a golf handicap.
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:21 AM
1

🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction20/04/19 11:09 PM
1

lol yeah whereas every dance on the dance floor is like a speed dating session with a hug. I recommend kizomba, very intimate and girls love it. Doesn't take much to get average at it.
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:45 PM
1

Nah, can't fuck virtually, what's the point? Move on
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:54 PM
3

True. If you actually had an abundance mentality you wouldn't give enough of a shit to spend time writing about it.
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:52 PM
2

Take dance classes, you'll meet so many girls and you can talk to them while they're in your arms. Worked great for me, and now I have a passion that makes me more interesting too.
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:47 PM
1

And yeah, sexually liberated is right. I'm doing a lot more than most of my friends who weren't in a cult, because I'm more motivated I guess.
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:39 PM
2

Sooo sheltered. We lived in a watertight bubble, completely separated from the world. I will keep learning, thanks for the encouragement!
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:38 PM
2

Wait for them to reply of course
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:35 PM
2

Yeah totally
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:34 PM
3

Oh everyone used to think we were JWs because we'd go door knocking with white shirt and ties lol. Glad you're out 🙂
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:33 PM
2

Thanks man what cult were you in? I was in the Lord's recovery, it's an offshoot from the exclusive brethren
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:30 PM
2

It's good to have an excuse to approach, like asking the time or something but they know thats BS anyway. Lol one time I did that, she told me the time and made chit chat for a bit then she was like "are you going to ask me for my number or what?" Haha she knew asking for the time was just an excuse and she didn't mind at all. Girls want you to approach them man but they don't want to make the first move. So literally use any excuse to start a conversation. Often on the bus or train I'll start l…
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:26 PM
2

"Hey what's up? Great day today right? I'm Principatus, nice to meet you. " "Hi Principatus, I'm AttractiveWoman, nice to meet you too." Bam. You're having a conversation. Ask her about her hobbies.
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:22 PM
6

I was in a religious cult for twelve years. I had no social life outside of the cult, all my friends were cult members. For twelve fucking years. Not allowed to talk to girls either, so I ended up marrying someone I hardly knew. After six years of misery at being in an abusive marriage and dead bedroom, I had to leave her even though I knew the whole church would turn against me. They did, and I finally learned the truth - that they were just a weird cult and I had been lied to all this time. So…
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:12 PM
2

So focus less on women and more on interesting things you like. Pick up a martial art or learn to dance. Watch documentaries and read books. Find something that fascinates you and have your own opinions about things. You're obviously already doing these things but do it some more. Then when you meet a girl, ask them questions about what they're interested in and what they like. Ask more details and give your opinions on what she says. If you have nothing else, fall back on what interests you and…
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:29 PM
2

I mean obviously it would be better to work your way up to it but what I'm saying is, if you haven't built up any chemistry, don't let that stop you from inviting them home.
/r/seduction20/04/19 06:14 PM
1

Maybe she genuinely wants to know how big your dick is, and by insulting you and seeing your reaction she can get a good idea of its size. If you take offense and get butt hurt, it's not worth her time. If you LOL and it washes over you like water off a duck's back, maybe there's a reason why you're so confident about the size of your dick (i.e. it's big). The girl is doing a litmus test for your dick size, the best she can without actually looking at it.
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:35 AM
2

Right? Psssh girl you wouldn't be saying that if you saw it, lmao
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:30 AM
2

I lost my virginity at 26 man, no big deal. You're doing fine and are still young.
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:52 AM
2

As someone who has been married before, I hope you made the right decision and you have a happy marriage. Just because she's your wife, doesn't mean she's going to have sex with you often. I'd rather be a regular at r/Seduction than r/DeadBedrooms. Personally, I'm not an incel. I love women and am not bitter towards them, neither do I resent them in any way or feel entitled to sex. I just genuinely enjoy female company and want to get better at making them wet and horny. I have two fwb that I me…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:25 AM
1

Hypnosis bro. Works great
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:14 PM
13

There's nothing wrong with game but you've definitely been going about it wrong. You should ascertain what it is you really want and focus on getting that, rather than just sex which you're unsatisfied with. You seem clear now on what you want, you want a strong intimate connection with someone intelligent who likes you for who you are. Great. Now focus on getting that. Obviously you'll never get it in a nightclub so stop going to nightclubs. Go somewhere you like going, what are you interested …
/r/seduction06/04/19 10:27 AM
1

I think this is an inner game matter rather than an outward action to take. Actually be confident. Don't give that much of a shit. You're getting laid tonight anyway, what do you care if she's taken. I'd just joke with her and say "oh you poor thing, chained down in your prime" or something to that effect.
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:25 AM
2

Last Friday I went to a club with a girl I matched with on Tinder. She kept me waiting for an hour - if I hadn't met a guy to chat with I wouldn't have waited so long. Then as we danced she did these really sexy moves on a bunch of other guys, like she was about to give them head on the dance floor or something. Oookay... I just took it in my stride, did some dirty dancing with her too, didn't give too much of a shit and just focused on enjoying myself... and then at the end of the night told he…
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:22 PM
1

🙄 okay forget it
/r/seduction30/03/19 09:07 AM
1

Okay whatever dude you do you. I agree that the feminist influence on the western world is bullshit but my own experience has been that many girls have enjoyed my charm. Its all about your delivery.
/r/seduction30/03/19 08:54 AM
2

Hating your parents isn't gonna get the girls wet
/r/seduction30/03/19 08:44 AM
1

It's not a matter of looks, Mick Jagger was butt ugly but got a lot of tail. It's the vibe you put out and the way you say it.
/r/seduction30/03/19 08:43 AM
2

Why is your desire for her invalid? Own it. Tell her about it. Your desire for her is a great conversation piece and she'll appreciate your boldness and balls, as well as the compliment - even if she's not interested. Many times I made a girl's day - even if I got rejected, she got a huge confidence boost and felt great as a result of the interaction.
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:50 AM
1

You don't necessarily need oils to anchor, you can set a color as a trigger. So if you want to feel confident you can just think of the color yellow, and/or look around you and look at yellow. Of course you need to set the trigger first.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:15 AM
2

No I'm with you on that one too, I agree
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:02 AM
2

I didn't say anxious, there's nothing positive about anxiety. Completely different thing. Also this is only if you can't not be nervous. It's better to not be nervous at all but if being with a really pretty girl makes you nervous, it's pretty hard to just not be nervous. My point was to turn it around to minimize the bad effects if you are nervous And yeah of course you should be at least moderately good looking. Wear nice clothes, shave, wear deodorant/cologne, brush your teeth and take breath…
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:10 AM
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It's not the jokes that are the issue though it's the nervousness. Deal with that first. I once read an email newsletter that suggested, if you can't not be nervous, that you have to see the nervousness as a positive thing. Like "holy shit she's beautiful, how awesome is this?" The nervousness can be used to create sexual tension, instead of killing it. Tell her she's so fucking hot that you're nervous and can't think of things to talk about (if it's true) or whatever is in your head, just blurt…
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:17 PM
6

Exactly
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:53 AM
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A guy with an active sex life will not give nearly as much of a shit. Women like men that other women like, i.e. Sexually active men. For example, let's say you have several fwb you can text and suggest to come over in the evening with a bottle wine, any time. If a new chick rejects you, you don't give a shit at all. It's that bitch who missed out, not you. Knowing you can easily get laid stops you from giving a shit. Girls know this. So if you genuinely don't give a shit, the implication is tha…
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:49 AM
6

This morning an old friend posted a picture on fb that revealed a nice bum in her swimsuit so I pm'd her to make a compliment/joke about her sexy bum and she loved it. Was pleasantly surprised, it's okay to flirt with friends. Felt good.
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:56 AM
18

Did you explain that to her?
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:10 PM
2

50 isn't that old actually. Some really hot 50 year olds out there. Still young
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:21 PM
6

Don't get me wrong, I'd rather fuck a 19 year old any day. But milfs are sexy too
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:23 PM
9

Wow 😳 I'm only in my 30s and I'd bang a woman in her fifties if she was pretty, horny and had big tits. Different people have different priorities and preferences I suppose.
/r/seduction28/01/19 11:39 AM
1

Although to be fair, I don't think he was starting game for the first time, pretty sure he had done it his whole life. He did have a wife before he was in the old folks home though so he had to start again in that sense, it's not easy learning seduction after marriage.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:10 AM
2

No I'm not actually. Mildly exaggerating maybe, he wasn't sleeping with every single old lady there, but certainly a whole lot of them. More sex than most younger people are getting. If you're charming and you can still get up then you're gonna be popular in a place like that. If you knew anything about old folks homes you'd know there's nothing better to do there before your time is up than to fuck around. It may sound gross but there's a whole lotta sex happening in those places. What else are…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:08 AM
63

My great grandfather was killing it in the old folks home in his 90s. He was sleeping with just about every old lady there. Never too late.
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:31 AM
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22 is really young. I'm 34 and just learning, and there are men in their fifties learning game. I do agree of course, it's never too late. I'm just saying 22 isn't a great example of starting late, you're 'getting in on the ground floor' as they say.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:15 AM
3

Just start having sex. Doesn't matter ugly or whatever just have sex, don't let silly things like standards slow you down. Be a guy who fucks women. Then all you need to do is rinse and repeat with prettier women.
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:01 AM
3

Can confirm - about a decade ago I grew to really like this one girl and thought about her every day. Eventually she didn't want to go out with me and it sucked really badly. A lot of tears. It's much better to just have sex with women and not get too emotionally attached. Or if you do grow to like someone a lot, it should be someone you're fucking on the regular already.
/r/seduction25/01/19 01:27 AM
14

Your comfort zone is like your bedroom - you should leave it every day, in fact it's better to spend more than half your life outside of it. But if you never go there to rest, you're homeless. You need to be able to return back to your comfort zone when you're exhausted, when you're down, when your energy and willpower are depleted. Then recharge and prepare to leave your comfort zone again. But to say you're leaving it and never going back is unreasonable, unrealistic and setting yourself up fo…
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:32 PM
1

You need the husband to be present, in my opinion. Just so, when you say it, he really knows for sure that he's cool with it.
/r/seduction23/12/18 07:58 AM
1

Just for the record, the bachata dance floor and the nightclub dance floor are two very, very different things. I have game on the bachata dance floor and have girls clinging to me like a koala bear but no game at all in the night club. And that suits me fine.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:32 PM
1

I hate nightclubs, I never have fun. I'd much rather sit in a pub where I can hear my friends, or better yet, play a game of pool with them. Try some day game, it's different. If you feel awkward standing there fake dancing with your beer, you're not the only one. Doesn't mean you can't seduce women, it just means that's not your natural environment. You'll be able to seduce women in other contexts! What really helped me break through was dance class and socials (bachata and kizomba). I chat wit…
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:25 PM
1

Thanks for pointing it out man - and in a nice way.
/r/seduction28/11/18 10:38 AM
1

This is true. The other day I told a different girl that if I wasn't leaving the country I would totally ask her out. She liked that but I knew I totally could have asked her out anyway and was just saying that so she couldn't reject me (it wasn't an invite). And a girl on ThaiCupid I told her I wanted her just as I was saying goodbye- she ended up horny and I shouldn't have ended the conversation so soon because she was into it. You're right, I do this.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:55 AM
1

Well aren't you a little expert on women
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:42 AM
0

Also I'm not moving there to get laid. I'm moving there because I need a job, I'm an English teacher. That's my primary purpose for going.
/r/seduction28/11/18 12:14 AM
0

Some people go to a club to get laid. Some people go into town just to cold approach women. Fuck yeah I'm going to a different country to work on my pickup skills, because I'm motivated and committed to bettering myself and learning seduction. I'm an international playboy and I'm not ashamed of that. I'm working on my pickup skills and after a year or two overseas will be able to come back to my home country and do the same thing I've been doing overseas. Or maybe I'll go to other countries not …
/r/seduction28/11/18 12:09 AM
3

Username checks out.
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:37 PM
1

I didn't mean the very beginning. I meant, like from the first time you fuck. Not the first five minutes of talking. And no I disagree, I don't think it's creepy at all if you express your sexual intent in a charming, polite manner. I've asked half a dozen female friends if they wanted to be fwb and none of them have ever been offended by the question, because I was a gentleman about it. They were flattered. If you're like "hey bitch, want a good time tonight?" Then obviously you're a creep. But…
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:36 PM
1

Well the point we were talking about is that it's good to just flirt and not give a shit about getting anything from it.
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:28 PM
1

I thought a sexpat was someone who paid for sex, they go to a country because the hookers are cheaper there. A sexpat isn't someone who wants to seduce women. Nothing wrong with seduction, we're on r/seduction ffs
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:46 AM
1

I'm no expert as I don't have any either. I'm a beginner. But the method I'm taking is this: learn Latin dancing and get good at it, practise cold approach pickup on the regular, hang out with like-minded playboy type men who get laid a lot more than I do, and move to Southeast Asia where being a Caucasian gives me 'exotic rich foreigner' value with women. Also, don't give a shit about what women think or whether they want you, make jokes that amuse yourself even if they're mildly chauvinistic, …
/r/seduction27/11/18 06:26 AM
7

Well I'm leaving the country in a week, moving to Thailand to teach English. So not much point.
/r/seduction27/11/18 06:04 AM
1

Life has meaning but it's BYO.
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:22 AM
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Woop woop! I'm 34. My biggest regret at this point in my life is my lack of seduction skills and the life choices that brought me into this lack. I have made a solid decision to become an international playboy and travel the world giving beautiful women around the world amazing orgasms. And you know what? As long as I'm up front and honest from the beginning, as long as the women know what they're getting into and they have no expectations of exclusive relationships, it's a win-win situation. As…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:20 AM
2

Time only rots if you kill it. Don't kill time, invest it wisely
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:06 AM
12

Today I bought a coffee and the girl behind the counter was stunningly hot. When she came to take my order her smile and charm kind of took my breath away, and I forgot what I wanted to order. So I told her so. She loved it and smiled even lovelier than before and we both just grinned at each other - and then I ordered a coffee. Didn't ask her out. Didn't ask for her number. Just had a delightful interaction with a feminine beauty that made both of our days. I think it's just good practice y'kno…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:02 AM
13

Don't get a girlfriend, get a network of fuck buddies. Train your mind to leave the scarcity mindset to the abundance mindset, by actually moving from scarcity to abundance.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:53 AM
4

I think I'd act a lot like AP if I was that confident
/r/seduction24/11/18 05:41 AM
25

Think of Austin Powers being chased down the street by hordes of horny women. That's more of a wet dream than a nightmare.
/r/seduction24/11/18 03:39 AM
3

This is absolutely true. I spent my teens and 20s believing sex before marriage was sinful - lost my virginity when I got married at 26. Then 6 years of dead bedroom (sex a few times a year) later and I realized the great lie. Saving yourself for marriage is the biggest way to fuck up your life there is. It virtually guarantees that you will have a mediocre-at-best marriage, and your wife will be able to use sex as a weapon against you to control you. Those who get divorced are the lucky ones - …
/r/seduction05/11/18 10:31 AM
9

Better late than never. You're not dead yet mate
/r/seduction05/11/18 10:11 AM
1

I have seen some stunningly hot disabled chicks and would totally bone them. I still felt too shy to approach, even if they were in a wheelchair.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:24 AM
1

Also at the end he says women are more insecure and we need to capitalize and take advantage of that
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:10 AM
1

Google 'gaslighting'
/r/seduction18/05/18 03:08 AM
0

He's literally encouraging you to feed on women's insecurities
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:59 PM
0

This is the email I got selling a course on how to manipulate and psychologically abuse women. Absolutely shocking and unethical, can hardly believe it: How do you deal with the fact that women have so many options nowadays? And that when she’s not with you, she’s on Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, getting bombarded with hundreds of messages a day. The fact is: A woman’s attention span is getting shorter and shorter when it comes to dating. How do you keep her from getting distracted? How do you ke…
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:58 PM
1

If you want to meet women I recommend learning a dance. I do bachata and kizomba, great kino.
/r/seduction04/05/18 07:11 PM
1

Different ways. One of them I just asked her opinion on fwbs while we were chatting about dating, one of them I asked straight up while we were talking about how shitty our exes were and how neither of us felt like relationships, one of them I had amazing chemistry with while we were dancing and I just brought it up from nowhere. That third one said she wasn't a casual kind of girl but would have been very happy to date if she hadn't been about to migrate to another country in a month. She didn'…
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:50 PM
1

Right. And that's a step in the right direction towards an abundant sex life. Not there yet but we just keep working on it.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:39 PM
1

I have this same issue. I've only ever asked three girls if they wanted to be fwb - they all declined but they were all flattered and very glad I asked. No awkwardness. In each case we became closer as friends.
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:50 AM
1

He? He? Dude why you trust your competition? Isn't it obvious that this guy is her friend because he's gotten friend zoned and is telling you that shit because he "secretly" wants her for himself? Unless he's flagrantly and fabulously gay, Big Gay Al -level gay, you shouldn't listen to a word he says. And if he is gay, maybe it's you he likes. Always an alterior motive.
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:33 AM
1

I'm not usually attracted to blondes, personally (there have been a few exceptions). For the most part I'm really attracted to Asian women. Preference is preference, attraction is attraction. Don't think about it too much. However having said that, Asians are a lot more difficult to game, more conservative cultures
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:13 AM
1

Don't screw the crew, imho
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:08 AM
1

I fucked up waaay worse than you. I joined a religious cult for 12 years and married an abusive woman who refused to have sex with me more than once every 2-3 months - and we stayed married like that for 6 years. I was celibate until I married her and then I continued celibacy while I was married too. Now I left my wife, left the cult, and am rebuilding my life. I'm 34 but I live with my parents, because I'm building a startup business instead of getting a job. I'm broke af and the only sex I've…
/r/seduction04/05/18 11:06 AM
1

Now I'm not getting laid so take this advice with a grain of salt but I also used to be afraid of girls, I used to stutter when talking to them etc. Then I started dance classes. I dance with gorgeous stunning 10s all the time (bachata and kizomba) and am beginning to get good at it. I'm not worried about dating them or getting laid, I just treat them like friends and chat with them casually while we dance. In recent months as my confidence has been improving many women are really warming up to …
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:32 AM
2

Just for the record I'm from New Zealand
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:27 PM
1

Amen my friend
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:25 PM
2

I suppose. But girls my age have usually gotten bored of casual sex and want to settle down with a long term exclusive boyfriend, I'm more interested in building a network of fwb right now, having just come out of a shitty marriage.
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:25 PM
3

They are aye!
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:22 PM
2

Yeah I agree. I'm not looking for a life partner I'm wanting to have some fun so I shouldn't expect them to accommodate me for that
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:21 PM
2

I just turned 34 and these girls are in their 20s
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:19 PM
3

Attention and validation. Noted! Thanks
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:18 PM
4

Well my Facebook may be a problem. If you scroll back to last year you'll discover I was in a cult for twelve years. It's called the Lord's Recovery, it's similar to the exclusive brethren. I left my abusive ex wife back in 2016 and late '16 early '17 I discovered the same abusive traits in my church that I saw in my ex so I started reading all the cult accusations online, believed them, and left. That's all recorded on Facebook because I used Facebook to let all my cult friends know where I sto…
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:55 PM
2

I suppose I should be coming up with a reason to get in touch - but I don't want to come off as clingy either.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:41 PM
2

Well yeah, I've got stuff to do and nothing to talk about with them over text. But it happened last time even though the date was the very next day.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:40 PM
1

Thanks dude
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:27 AM
1

This is good advice. Thanks! And yes you're right I need cold approach just to stay sharp
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:22 AM
2

By 'staying longer in the set' you mean, hang out with her longer right? Try and go for the insta-date. I do, but often I meet girls on my way to stuff I'm doing and don't have much time to talk, i.e. sitting next to pretty girls on the train. But I'll make a note to prolong it when possible. I dance a lot, bachata and kizomba. I meet a lot of women through that. Maybe I need to focus on them and not expect too much from cold approach?
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:18 AM
1

Thanks man. That's encouraging. Maybe I gotta focus on warm doors instead of just cold approach?
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:12 AM
2

I've deleted the girls who blocked me I'm afraid so no screenshots. But literally it's like the first thing I say is something like "see you soon" or something to confirm and then I get "oh I'm sorry..." as their reply.
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:09 AM
3

Okay good to know. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:03 AM
3

Thanks man appreciate that
/r/seduction03/05/18 11:03 AM
2

Porn isn't going to help, imho. It's not really very similar to normal sex at all.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:52 AM
35

Absolutely it can
/r/seduction20/07/17 10:19 PM
2

I wholeheartedly agree with you, but I should just say I meant confidence in talking to women, not confidence in dancing. I should have been clearer when I wrote it. Every dance has a conversation, which is practice at talking with women. Some very attractive women too, quite often. This helps me a lot in having conversations with women I am not dancing with. I don't just dance, I cold approach on the street. My cold approach has improved a lot since I started dancing, and at a faster rate than …
/r/seduction07/06/17 05:26 PM
2

Pretty sure girls are people? Out of all the women you meet, some will be attracted to you. That's why I like dancing so much (I do ceroc/jive), I'm meeting (and chatting up) so many women. I'm getting a lot more comfortable talking to women and am finding, as my confidence and dance skill improve, that I'm getting a lot of IOIs.
/r/seduction07/06/17 06:56 AM
0

There was this gorgeous farmer girl, Caucasian, that I got on really well with. There was a bit of flirting and chemistry. Then the next time I saw her she was wearing a sleeveless blouse revealing an arm tattoo, so I asked her what it was. It was from some dorky computer game. I smirked a little and struggled not to giggle, she wasn't happy lol. So she was a hot gamer girl with a dorky gamer tatt and I mocked her for it and pretty much saw her differently from then on. So it happens with both g…
/r/seduction07/06/17 06:48 AM
1

Humour Open Body Language Touch Attention Proximity Eye Contact
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:42 PM
2

Unfortunately I'm back in NZ. I did remain in China for a month after I left my ex though and was using Tantan (Chinese Tinder) and getting about a dozen matches every day. My game was so terrible back then though that I didn't get laid.
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:42 AM
-1

I go out cold-calling. I speak Chinese but I'm white so I use that to my advantage as an ice-breaker with Chinese girls. They're usually very open to chat and happy to give me their WeChat.
/r/seduction19/03/17 10:12 PM
15

Keep doing what you're doing op. I identified with the post, agreed with it and thought it was good advice.
/r/seduction19/03/17 10:44 AM
2

Haha yeah last night this girl was pretty drunk so I didn't want to hookup with her (too rapey). That made me more confident I think because I knew nothing was going to happen. She was playing with a Captain America shield school bag and I asked her what her superpower was. She said she had a bionic vagina. I rolled my eyes and said, 'useful power but not particularly helpful in fighting crime'. So she came and made out with me. I teased her for being a shitty kisser, like she was trying to eat …
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:20 AM
8

Are you fucking sorry?!?
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:10 AM
20

This is very encouraging. Girls want to be approached! It is my duty to fulfill this need in their lives. Lol!
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:07 AM
2

Depends on the circumstance. If I have nothing to say I won't force it
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:50 AM
4

Personally I try to remember to reply within 6 hours or so, if it needs a reply i.e. A question
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:12 AM
7

Say it if you think it. If you're not thinking it, don't say it. Hollow compliments are shallow and transparent, but genuine praise is touching.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:52 AM
5

Take ceroc or salsa lessons. You'll be the man when you get good at it, and you'll get to meet (and dance with) a whole lot of girls while you're learning. Girls are really impressed by a guy who can dance.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:49 AM
7

"All I need is a wimp to be my doormat and put up with all my crazy bullshit"
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:28 PM
18

And the watermark for the stock photo. Brilliant 😁
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:24 PM
7

My ex wife ticks 13/17 boxes. Good thing we never had kids or there would be more. She didn't seduce anyone else and she did do housework. We didn't have kids because divorce was always on the horizon for the six years we were married. The rest describes her down to a t.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 11:18 PM
3

Don't do that. Seriously. If a girl punched you in the stomach would you want to kiss her? 🙄
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:03 PM
3

Like you're 5: "No kid you're too young for pickup" Trolololol At high school, your best bet is to learn to be as natural around women as possible, i.e. Get used to being with girls. This will help you for your whole life. Make friends with girls. Be the one guy hanging out with a group of girls. Don't think about whether one of them likes you or not, stop caring about impressing them. Just hang out with them. Be the one guy they know better than any other guy. You know those guys who started pl…
/r/seduction07/02/17 04:54 PM
1

Pay. But there's a few free lessons
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:24 AM
1

Glad to hear dude. Btw if you get good at it, girls will find that sexy af.
/r/seduction05/02/17 06:55 PM
3

You sound like a normal human being. Me too. Just keep doing it 🙂
/r/seduction05/02/17 06:50 PM
1

Then there's your answer my man 🙂
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:46 AM
2

If you can't change it, you better be prepared not to get laid much
/r/seduction05/02/17 04:05 AM
4

The best way to grow balls is to practise. Start with chatting to old ladies if you have to. Then married women. Get used to making conversation with females, without hitting on them. When it feels normal to talk to attractive young single women, you can start flirting with them as the next step.
/r/seduction05/02/17 03:44 AM
2

I have a similar situation. I got married a virgin and then left her a few months ago after 6 years of marriage. Now I'm 32 and learning pickup for the first time. Advice that people have given me is to avoid explaining anything. I don't need to explain that I left because she was abusive or that she had zero libido and only had sex with me once every few months. The only thing I should ever tell people (unless having a deep heart to heart) is that I'm just recently back on the market after endi…
/r/seduction05/02/17 03:30 AM
1

Probably the best way is to relax and stop caring. How to do that? Get more experience. How to get more experience? Talk to more girls. By talking to girls more, it becomes easier. Try hitting on a girl every day, you will notice progress. At the very least, have a conversation with an attractive woman. Even if she's married and it's a platonic conversation, it's improving your social skills and is better than nothing at all.
/r/seduction05/02/17 02:50 AM
1

Generally speaking the rule of thumb is this: if she was lying in bed naked and waiting for you, would you climb in with her or politely decline and sleep on the couch instead? If you would bang her, you might as well date her. If she's okay but not that interesting, your blaisé attitude might come off as confidence, and she'll be more attracted to you. Maybe. If you play your cards right. Or there might just not be any chemistry.
/r/seduction05/02/17 02:25 AM
1

Whether it's creepy or not depends on how you do it. Some smiles are creepy, some are contagious.
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:43 PM
11

Yep. Weird. This girl kept messaging me and I thought she was totally boring but talked to her anyway because she was hot. Then she told me she didn't believe I truly left my ex because I hadn't deleted the old photos on Facebook so she wasn't going to talk to me anymore and I totally panicked. Go figure.
/r/seduction04/02/17 06:37 PM
1

Yeah if I can't think of anything to say and it's silent, I just smile a lot and look at her.
/r/seduction04/02/17 06:33 PM
2

Learn how to give her the most insane orgasms she's ever had, I suppose. That'd be a good start. I saw these videos recently and decided I'm going to learn hypnosis. Hopefully the next girlfriend I have will be open to trying it out with me: https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=PLnvsw1alagZKDgCUs4IVkKz5VTRc0-dzJ&v=YQHlGNMVWWw
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:55 PM
33

On the contrary, talking to girls has only ever helped me with the latter two.
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:46 PM
1

Practise flirting with other women. Being good at talking to women in general is going to help a lot with talking to that one special woman in particular. It will put you in her league, so to speak.
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:02 AM
1

Okay thanks. Yeah I wasn't sure if it was super beta or an epic life hack. I guess it depends on delivery. Apparently girls are often excited at the opportunity to be a matchmaker.
/r/seduction07/01/17 07:39 AM
1

Maybe clear intentions are good? It helps prevent you from friend zoning yourself 👍🏻
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:00 PM
3

I saw something awesome recently on YouTube and am going to try it out: "Hi I'm [name], I'm here to flirt with you. How you doing?"
/r/seduction30/12/16 08:01 AM
1

Download the Meetup app. Singles events, language practice if you know a second language, dancing, hiking, other sports etc, pub quiz, etc, they're all good for meeting people and making new friends.
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:59 AM
2

I think you're thinking too much. Relax man it is what it is. Analysis paralysis will be your downfall. Having said that I invited a girl to a NYE party today and my intention was totally to get with her. But then, if she comes and brings a friend, maybe I will get with her friend? Maybe I will just have a great time and not get with either of them? I don't give a shit. And that's the best way to be.
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:19 AM
1

That's disgusting. Would she be satisfied? No way.
/r/seduction23/11/16 11:49 AM
2

Maybe she just forgot to deactivate it. Just because she didn't turn it off doesn't mean she uses up all her daily swipes every day.
/r/seduction23/11/16 07:44 AM
1

Absolutely 😁
/r/seduction15/11/16 02:14 PM
1

Well Mike I've been loving the blog. Just about read every post. I'm new to the game having recently become single and need to study up.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:49 PM
5

This is great. Practice makes perfect! The less you focus on results and the more fun you have doing it, the better results you get. I like this.
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:37 PM
0

http://whyzat.com/la-tomatina-celebrate-70-years-of-the-worlds-biggest-food-fight-with-the-greatest-splatsla-tomatina-celebrate-70-years-of-the-worlds-biggest-food-fight-with-the-greatest-splats/
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:05 AM
1

I don't see why it's offensive. You're so attractive that guys who want to approach you need their friends encouragement to push them to do so? Sounds flattering to me.
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:01 AM
1

Meetup.com and the Meetup app. Sign up for all sorts of interesting things. This Wednesday I'm going to go practise my French with a group of about 10, only one other guy in the group. Should be fun.
/r/seduction13/11/16 04:34 AM
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