keeping engagement while texting

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-05T01:15:32+00:00

If you are not an interesting person, then develop this side of yourself to become more interesting.

garlopf · 2022-07-05T01:34:24+00:00

I found it helps if you learn of a common interest early in the conversation. It doesn't have to be very big thing. For example today I had a great conversation with a girl over our common love for a particular local sweet that not many people enjoy.

You can make it interesting by giving unexpected answers, or purposefully misinterpreting her answers. Do it in a joking casual way. Build a pattern of speech that is unique to you two.

Also it is very useful to know that avoiding certain topics can be important. Some topics are self explanatory, while others are dependent on the girl or situation. For example I knew she was a student, but I never asked what she is studying or mention my work. I did that deliberately because it was a very easy thing to ask. Easy=boring and she heard it before. When I eventually ask her, I will put a twist on the question, like "how many times did you skip school already?".

Finally, all this is very difficult to pull of if she is not responding well. You need to use her replies as stepping stones into more fun topics and angles.

DraeNation · 2022-07-05T09:41:04+00:00

Ahhh nice. That hump is hard to get over. You can always get a good conversation either asking for advice or input. Don't be afraid to attack world issues and weird stuff like that especially if you know her enough. And even if you dont, certain questions bring about good convos.

There's also nothing wrong with keeping a short list of questions you feel like could be tackled together. Some things I like to ask is "What are deal breakers for you?" or depending on how far in yall are "What type of weird things turn you on?" is always a good question. Both of those provider her with space to talk about herself which women love doing, and you the space to chime on with jokes from the sideline.

You really just want to be in the best position to show off your best attributes, mine being wittiness and creativity. So I'm good on the fly. If you know where you best shine, steer the conversation to those areas. If you're very knowledgeable about something, find a connect/balance to what she likes to talk about and relate.

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-07-05T10:59:45+00:00

Counterproductive but the less you think the better.

1) The overthinking and constant adjustments to your text trying to come up with something funny/flirty comes off too try hard.

2) If the set is solid in person texting makes it so much easier

3) Keep it light and funny

4) Last but not least. You can do everything right and still get flaked or you could fuck up so badly and still get a date. Remember dating involves 2 people; you cant control the variable of your target, only yourself

Unique_Suspect8711 · 2022-07-05T12:56:25+00:00

First and foremost. Texting is for logistics only

Title	keeping engagement while texting
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Date	July 5, 2022 12:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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