Hey seddit, I have this problem where whenever I initiate kino I feel like the girl doesn't want it and it makes me seem kinda rapey. I usually pull away when I feel like they're uncomfortable with it but its usually too late by then and I make myself seem like a creep. I usually start with light kino and when she doesn't react negatively to it, I usually step it up until its the point where she's uncomfortable. I try to make kino seem natural so that it doesnt seem awkward and weird.Am I going at it too hard? Am I not creating enough attraction beforehand? I want to create more attraction through kino but I think I suck at it. One time I was hugging a girl and it was kind of a long hug. I didn't really let go until she asked me what I was doing in a kind of defensive tone then I finally let go. Is it bad to come on too strongly?