To be brief, I have no trouble doing anything other than kiss closing. Hell, after I've eventually kissed a girl I feel no anxiety what so ever. Moving onto sex is easier and more comfortable for me. I've gotten so close to a kiss-close many times, and I just chicken out.

Getting them into that "puppy dog eyed" look isn't so difficult, and I feel like I'm closing the gap, but I just get really weird about it. It's Mostly that "staring sexual tension eye contact moment" I get nervous and frozen.

More then anything I'm looking for a pep talk, something to stop psyching myself out. How did you guys push past that anxiety?

Update: Went to a friends going away party, got pretty friendly with this girl, got rejected three times by her. She wanted to come to an after party with me, tried it again. Motherfucking home run.

How I psyched myself into it? Like everyones been saying: I did not care about the outcome, it makes life in general more fun, not just with women. Getting rejected is actually kinda fun, its just a fucking game girls play, no sense it taking it so seriously.

Thanks