Having been in this community for a large number of years, one consistent thing I have observed with guys who are trying to improve their interactions with women and get laid is that they start getting into the woman rating game. This game can be taken to an obsession with the goal being getting the highest rated woman possible like a score card they are keeping to compete with other guys. The issue with this is that these guys often have no sense of their own value or inflate it, resulting in a notable negative affect on their progress.

Learn your value! This means knowing what your weak points and strengths are. It means looking at yourself in a mirror and objectively understanding where you stand in the world. The more you build this awareness of yourself, the more you can play to your strengths and improve your weaknesses. Some weaknesses will never be overcome, yet knowing what they are and accepting them will do more for a man's confidence that a huge number of other superficial things that many focus on instead. One of the worst things a guy can do when getting started is to pretend his weaknesses don't exist or that his strengths are greater than they are, simply because they will be extremely difficult to change. Even worse to think that weaknesses are strengths and thus go down the wrong path, deceiving yourself in the process.

Look at yourself both physically and socially. Where do you stand in society?