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[–]Insaneflirt_max 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just do this : invest as much or less than her.
If she's texting you pages, do the same. If she is answering one word answers, don't overdo it.
[–]alexwalsh1_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That initial really good flow of conversation is probably a good indicator of your compatibility
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[–]Nine_Faces 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder where’s the balance, she write me a lot, like she writes something, after I don’t respond for a few minutes/hours she double texts me.
My ex gf, we texted for hours and she loved it, but most girls don’t from my experience, really difficult...
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Let us issue the problem of phone personification.
If you genuinely miss human contact, you will start to create a feeling towards a imagination of person you type with. If you create this kind of relationship over the phone prior to real meeting, there is literally no chance to meet IRL, because this meeting would ruin the idea you have, and those stories you made in your head about the other person.
Let other men be the phone personification, you always aim for real contact. She might not be happy about it, but stay coherent, you are not here to make her always happy.
Become happy, find a happy girl and then plan. Treat everything before this as temporary distraction
[–]Nine_Faces 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I usually don’t text much and go for dates ASAP, but this fucking quarantine messes up the game, Corona literally cockblocked r/seduction
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yup, this will increase this problem, putting more men into situation, that they will be used via phone as human contact supplement, creating false illusion, that they will meet each other when this all will end.
[–]Nine_Faces 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think this is quite situational, me and my ex of 3 years texted a lot in the beginning, we just had good chemistry and no game was needed.
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Before or after you first met?
[–]Nine_Faces 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
We met at a mutual friends house, we didn’t even talk there, she just texted me the next day when I was out of town and we started texting back and forth for at least 2 weeks before we met again.
Literally 24/7 texting for 2 weeks, which led to a cool 3 year relationship.
So I always have trouble with the whole “texting game”, I think it’s all situational, and the kind of girls that think you’re too eager by texting them are not worth it.
I mean, if I find you interesting, you find me interesting, then why not talk for hours, we enjoy each other’s company, let’s stop the games.
[–]excentrik-art 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What I ment was when you never saw each other, met online, and texted 24/7. That usually never ends in dates, but sometimes does :)
[–]Nine_Faces 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Keyword sometimes haha, dating is wild, cheers mate, best of luck in your adventures!
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks mate, best of luck to you too :)
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