Are there no men who have trouble learning (low prospects, crappy job or no job) and are also socially awkward, here? In my experience these 2 frequently go together.

I'm sure SOME of you match this description. This is of course playing life (and game) on "ultra hard" or "insane" mode.

What have you done to sidestep this massive roadblock and get that dame you had your eye on, etc?