I was handsome and I shouldn't have listen to pickup artist crap. I had the most beautiful girl approached me and flirted with me and all I had to do was tell her how I feel about her. Unfortunately my mind was thinking about what to say and trying to remember what I learn from pickup artist that I wasn't even myself. Eventually i said some dumb stuff and she left me. Had I just told her I wanted her since she has a massive crush on me, we would be together now and I would be the luckiest person on earth. Listening to yourself is probably the best thing.