Hello Seddit. Long-time lurker and first time poster. I've been looking at the articles here and have been taking notes, but I think a more direct approach may be what I need.

I'm a 21 year old male, and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. It's been tough and it's still kind of tough, but we're crazy compatible and blah blah blah all that good stuff. Instead of boring you with those details, I will have to say that at times the relationship seems a little dull; lacking of that spice that you see when a guy is actively seducing a girl and working to really game her.

I've been looking through, and because I've always wanted to learn the art of seduction, I figure now is still a great time to learn and apply seduction to my relationship. I'm still reading and learning from what I see here, but my question is, is there anything relationship specific or a starting place to really start seducing my girl? Bring some spice into the mix and really get her and I motors running?

Tl;dr: I want to learn how to seduce my girlfriend and really keep her turned on and the relationship spicy. Any extra tips/starting points?