Every couple days there's another post about how to game girls over text, what to say, witty replies, how to start a conversation, etc.

In each one of these threads the answer is always the same "You can't build attraction over text." And I fully agree.

My entire text routine consists of a very simple greeting and then I transition into making plans. I used to try and "game" girls over text and honestly they would almost always lose interest after a few days or weeks. I would send witty openers and replies but they weren't me and just came off as needy. Don't make the same mistakes I did and keep your texts short and sweet.

I'm hoping some examples will help with comprehending this concept so I've included some of my own. These are all conversations I have had in the last three days. I am on the right side.

The first is with a girl I have met and gone out with once. First text conversation - Okay so lets look it over, is my opener amazing? Probably not. Is my followup any better? Who cares. We had an awesome time the last night and that's all I need to book a day 2. I don't give her time to lose attraction.

This next girl is one I have been hooking up with frequently over the last few months. I don't treat her any differently than the other girl, and why should I? My text game barely varies from girl to girl and I have never had an issue with it. Here is the conversation.

This last conversation is one I had with a long time friend of mine I used to hook up with (just great friends now) who moved away a couple months ago. Link to conversation I did use one simple line for banter during the text (she's been posting a ton of cooking pictures to Instagram lately) but I still stick to my same method, keeping it simple.

Don't get caught up trying to game over text. And I am always open for criticism if anyone believes my texts could be better or my theories are off - I'm always looking to improve.

TL;DR: Use texting to set up physical meetings or dates. Don't use it to try and build attraction