There is this girl who I've know since high school so for about 5 years. I would talk with her off and on then and considered her a friend. But she would always go on waves of talking to me then retreat back to not talking to me for a while. This is all while she doesn't know how I felt. Then there was times that I'd talk with her and all she would do is complain about her bf (she isn't a slut who has about 50 and keeps complaining to me). Saying they were going to end and what not. So she tells me they are over and we start talking a lot. I decide to tell her about how I felt before as more of an fyi type of thing. She says she felt the same and its to bad. We eventually start getting together on weekends from school. Then out of nowhere I get an message on facebook saying she is ending us cause she isn't over her ex. I talk to her saying its up to you and better off now then if we were serious. And make a conscious effort to not contact her. Then i get stuff from her that she misses me and likes talking to me...etc. i keep saying what i was before and keep it aloof. Then she deletes me on facebook and complete excommunication. I deal through this then about 6 months later get friend invite and accept. She starts talking to me saying how she missed me and stuff. I keep aloofness and she asks if we will eventually hangout. I secretly hoping for summer hookup say yes. It became me trying to talk to her to no avail. Still with her liking everything i did on facebook and acknowledging me. So she talks to me and she wants my phone number saying she will text me and we are hanging out this week. I text her once asking when and that it. But what I'm upset about is this shit always happens every time I let myself not care anymore. Sorry if using facebook like its real life but there are times when it really counts.