I just got back from the house of a girl I NOW realize I have oneitis for. I tried to make her so comfortable I didn't do anything with the opportunities I had.

But now I know better. I won't idolize her. I won't make her a priority. I won't put her on a pedestal. I will go out with other girls before meeting her again. And I will think about her as a sexual being and not just a validation machine.

And if it goes south, well, it ain't the first time it happens. Nor the last. Anyway I should just go to sleep and get over it cause overthinking is a bitch.

Good luck out there fellas.