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[–]cashmere_cats 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
> The next Monday I went there after gym again, this time without a proper reason except to walk around and see if I met her.
That's creepy. Don't do that. You're already overpursuing, which takes you out of your frame.
> Was she playing hard to get?
How would she even know you're into her? You've barely met her a few times, let alone made any attempt at flirting or connecting with her.
[–]Nosferatu_V[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry to read that. Perhaps I was at fault for not providing more detail. For what's worth the store is actually on the way to the gym. By my reading of her body language, eye contact and jokingly manner, she seemed interested. The reason I went there on Monday was so that I wouldn't lose timing and could approach her. I guess it's weird then to go somewhere with the purpose of approaching women Lol
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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