Yo. I am 26, male and have recently gotten extremely motivated to groom myself, approach women and get confident. I have started getting out of my comfort zone. While the sea of knowledge and the many views and angles on this subreddit are mindblowingly fascinating and educative, I am looking for objective, one-on-one, specific, personalized and directed advice from absolutely anybody who has had more experience with this than I have had. Let me know if you are up for this, and I will then send you a longer email explaining what I am struggling with, get honest unbiased feedback from you, work on specific things and give you frequent updates to check if I am headed the right way.

What's in it for you is the satisfaction of having improved another person's life and this would go up on your karma CV. Plus I will send you a postcard.

A little more about myself: I am a foreign student in Germany. I've been here for a year, and will be here for at least one more year. My English language skills are absolutely fluent. My German language skills are on their way... I've been learning the language for close to 1.5 years now. Though my build is average, I am a cyclist. I am really fit and I look it. I started cleaning up (nose hair, deos, perfumes, beard shaping, wearing well fitting clothes, oral hygiene, you know the routine...) but I can't, for the life of me, figure out what else I can do.

I know, this calls for a friend. But at the moment I am in a new town. I do not have close friends here, and neither am I eager to make any. I find this setting perfect... Nobody knows me here, I know nobody, I can experiement all I want.