I'm a 32yr old guy that's been apart of the community off and on for a while now. I've found, lately, that I've been developing oneitis extremely easily with those that I date. This has caused me to become very afc (paranoid about the girl seeing others, jealous, etc.).

I can't go out and about too often cause my job schedule- plus, when I do go out, I get fairly bored. It's become so routine with shit-tests, bitch shields, and the like, that I just don't seem to care anymore.

Has something like this occured anyone else? Or does this mean I'm stuck in a rut and have to tough it out?