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[–]B-Cera 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to go up to her and ask her on a date. your over thinking it which is really preventing you from asking her out. You have nothing to lose, remember that.
[–]uk2knerf 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, the only interaction you've had is hanging out once, so what do you have to lose? Find out something cool going on around town, or even just a drink special at a bar.
Then text her: "hey what are you doing tonight?". (or whatever night it is). And gauge her response, if she's free just ask her. If you send that text you've already established you want to hang out. If you're still shy and don't want it to seem like a date say something like, "well there's thing going on downtown and I was wondering if you wanted to go, my friend had something come up last minute."
[–]reino341 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
don't ask to ask out, that's essentially what you're doing when texting what she's up to tonight.
asking out the same day is too short notice, she's likely to have plans, and if she doesn't, she probably doesn't want to give the impression of being too available.
so OP, essentially cut the bullshit and ask her out:
"hey wanna go for drinks next tuesday"
you might have to make adjustments based on your earlier messaging, but that's how i typically do it.
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