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I remember reading the same technique on RSDNation. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/300249
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 11:28 AM
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Most people have reasonable sense of fashion, so you're probably fine. On the other hand if you have no social circle and play games at home all day you probably haven't developed one. I mentioned not fapping because it'll enhance your desire to fuck girls. You'll be more inclined to approach and break out of comfort zone, and have more willpower to go out. If you can't go out every night, you should at least do some actions daily that put you out of comfort zone.
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:10 PM
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Yeah, it takes balls and shows you don't care.
/r/seduction17/09/12 04:03 PM
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If you're going out to fix social anxiety, don't drink.
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:48 AM
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Get the basics under control: hygiene, body odors (bad breath will fuck up your game), the way you dress etc. Most people have this department under control but if you're unsure you should probably post a pic of yourself in your party attire or something. Read manosphere. Heartiste (Roissy), Rational Male are helpful in internalizing the alpha mindset. Quit jerking off to porn Watch RSD videos on YouTube; Examples: 1 2 Most importantly: Go out every night if you can – my biggest sticking point w…
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:32 AM
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Just fucking kiss her.
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:19 AM
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NEXT.
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:18 AM
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Don't start of with a kiss, but be sure to initiate some kind of physical contact from the get go, could be a hug for example. That'll break the ice to be physical during the date. However that doesn't mean you should just go for the kiss out of blue in the middle of the date. Start with light touching and make her comfortable. I've found it effective to escalate in parallel to playful teasing when her buying temperature spikes a bit. Night game is really good for learning this and calibrating k…
/r/seduction17/09/12 10:15 AM
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this is how i warmup before i start feeling more chatty and my brain starts giving me spontaneous environmental openers.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:56 PM
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it's not about blame, it's about understanding the reality that inevitably not every girl will be receptive to your game for whatever reason. it does you no good to dwell on a blowout or whatever that happened simply because the girl was having a bad day. you do still quickly learn from the negative experiences, but put them behind you as fast as possible and focus on the successes. it's impossible to calibrate to everything.
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:11 PM
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as being more attractive person in general, yes, but when you're out and you approach a random girl she could for any number of reasons that are out of your control be unreceptive to your game.
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:17 PM
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time is better spent talking to someone, whatever the outcome, than standing in the corner with the beer against your chest. you can't control if someone is going to like you or not so stop worrying about it. edit: i'd like to add that if you view every interaction that doesn't lead into warm hole as a waste of time, i think you're approaching this whole thing with completely wrong mindset, meeting new people and socializing should be enjoyable to you.
/r/seduction31/05/12 10:40 AM
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yes, and preferably not on the weekend as a first date, both your and her time is too valuable considering you don't know each other too well.
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:14 AM
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Day 0 - Her: "haha ;) Add me on fb [Stuckup Labitch]" Me: "Hmmm I would but I don't think I know you well enough.. my fb is kinda exclusive =P I'm going off campus to get dinner this weekend, do you like sushi?" ignore the FB thing; as far as she's concerned you don't even use it. a guy who has a lot going on for him won't waste time playing games with girls on facebook. she laid the FB trap and wants to see if you join the endless horde of beta chodes that like her cat pictures all day long. al…
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:06 AM
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if I fapped right before going out I might not be able to push myself to f-close even if it was the best decision in long term to push the envelope and try to get a girl home instead of a number that is likely to flake personally I don't really fap anymore, it's bad for libido and T levels I hear
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:16 PM
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And I'm like "no worries, cool, i'll let you know." like I mentioned before, no reason to reply to every message like this, and "i'll let you know" feels to her like you're so committed to meet her whatever happens, while she's not showing any commitment at all. also, it's not apparent here but if you reply her really quickly and take less time than she does, it's going to bring down your value fast.
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:38 AM
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Should I call her bluff and be like "That's fine I don't think you're important enough to justify my time either." if you want to sound like a butthurt dark newbie, go ahead bro
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:30 AM
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Hmmm I would but I don't think I know you well enough.. my fb is kinda exclusive =P bad, you're trying to boast off with your value and not even in a playful way. Me: "haha thanks!" wouldn't have sent this. don't feel like you have to reply to every single txt she sends you edit: I'll let you know if I'm doing anything next week. again, same mistake than before. don't show commitment like this. she should always be feeling the uncertainty that this cool guy is never going to contact her again. i…
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:29 AM
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I believe im a naturally gifted conversationalist, im able to make people laugh easily, think of things to say quickly, am witty etc... but it did not come out when I was talking to that girl. I was just reactive to her her questions and didn't really impress her or make her feel attraction towards me. How can I be smooth as fuck with my words and have women want me after having a conversation with them? do you see how bad you were trying to impress her? that's your problem, not your conversatio…
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:57 AM
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exactly, "lets go for drinks tuesday 8pm at blahblah good for you?" e: realized i was a bit harsh
/r/seduction28/05/12 07:55 PM
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don't listen to what girl says, observe what she does.
/r/seduction27/05/12 01:20 AM
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Tell her you're blowing her off though. an ultimatum is a declaration of powerlessness
/r/seduction27/05/12 01:12 AM
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if you were his A-guy she wouldn't be playing hard to get, you probably screwed up the date (no kiss yet hand on waist, needy public display of affection? who the fuck knows), and then dug your hole deeper by being too eager afterwards. drop her.
/r/seduction26/05/12 05:49 PM
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actually it is
/r/seduction25/05/12 10:42 AM
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if you don't want to see her, don't reply, complete silence. if you ever see her again, act perfectly normal.
/r/seduction24/05/12 07:46 AM
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going out solo without drinking is the toughest shit there is for me, it feels that "being in state" is unattainable, yet on some level I'm always in state because the base level has gone up over time.
/r/seduction24/05/12 07:43 AM
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it's because she's a shitty person and clearly doesn't realize that on a saturday morning, some of us look like shit, move on. such a reactive and poisonous mindset, no good. who gives a shit? it's not a big deal, so why project.
/r/seduction21/05/12 09:56 AM
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not quite what I meant by giving up.
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:00 PM
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you might have given up too easily. it's only natural for girls to resist in order to not feel like a slut. two steps forward one step back, you need to lead. you know when you've gone too far, strong no is a no. we're not in the rape business inb4rapist
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:56 PM
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limiting belief trololol. but seriously, it's not about how stupid the girl is, but rather how natural your delivery is.
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:48 PM
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might be slightly better to introduce yourself instead of asking her name first, just something to experiment with. in fact, i think Tyler has described some exercise called "real man's blowout" where you for 20 minutes approach girls with "hey what's up, my name's sinslayer" and supposedly your natural personality starts coming out by the end.
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:45 PM
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tl;dr it's like a having normal conversation with your friend if you can't do it, it's because you're nervous or have poor social skills. and i'm sorry to inform you but there's no magic bullet to make you a good conversationalist other than practice and putting yourself to those situations.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:34 AM
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agree with that, but I also feel that reading manosphere & self-improvement related blogs keeps me in the right headspace
/r/seduction15/05/12 08:59 AM
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Brad Branson: Lessons In Lifestyle Development Bronan the Barbarian! Chateau Heartiste In Mala Fide Julien of Real Social Dynamics: Dating Fundamentals » Dating Fundamentals: JulienLife Postmasculine Roosh V Solve My Girl Problems Starting Young & Aiming High The Rational Male dump of subscriptions
/r/seduction15/05/12 08:57 AM
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Direct approaches work well during the day and indirect work better at night lol?
/r/seduction13/05/12 04:48 PM
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you can say that you got other plans, but it's important to be vague about it. leaves the hamster spinning. otherwise it comes off as bragging and lame. edit: could also not reply her the same day, and the next day text "was at <blahplace, it was awesome, you shouldve come", I think YaReally posted something like this at heartsie
/r/seduction13/05/12 04:39 PM
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i feel the same, but on the flipside, i'm starting to think that this uncomfortable feeling will go away the more often i do it. you see, dancing sober is a bit outside my comfort zone.
/r/seduction12/05/12 04:47 PM
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There are some nights when I have no problem whatsoever approaching girls. Then there are nights like tonight. there's something Tyler says that I find to be true: the first 30 seconds of the evening at the venue can determine how the night goes. so my advice is to push yourself very hard to be social in the beginning of the night while you still feel fresh and have a lot of willpower. open or make short comments to anyone. don't look for the perfect set or girl to IOI you because by the time it…
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:42 AM
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more you worry about this stuff, THE MORE AWKWARD it will be whatever kino you choose to perform. if you decide the day before that you're going to hug her when you meet, it's for sure going to have a weird vibe to it. i guarantee you this because i've done the same mistake. the hug was fucking awkward. Genuine desire is non-negotiable. It happens or it doesn’t. Desire is a spontaneous, chemical arousal between people, not a pre-written contract. http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/case…
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:24 AM
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it's the scarcity that has fucked up your mind. once you start getting validation from other chicks you're going to be back in the game. the power of now is a good book as mentioned.
/r/seduction09/05/12 02:48 PM
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don't ask to ask out, that's essentially what you're doing when texting what she's up to tonight. asking out the same day is too short notice, she's likely to have plans, and if she doesn't, she probably doesn't want to give the impression of being too available. so OP, essentially cut the bullshit and ask her out: "hey wanna go for drinks next tuesday" you might have to make adjustments based on your earlier messaging, but that's how i typically do it.
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:09 AM
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if you're concerned about what other people think, you're spending too much time in your head instead of not giving a fuck and having fun. It's not that I don't have fun, but at the same time it does stink to go out and consistently come away empty. if you make a lot of approaches you don't come away empty. it's just a matter of time before you're like a ghost to rejections. btw, I can't recommend RSD videos on youtube enough, check the videos from usernames rsdtyler, rsdfreetour, julienfreetour…
/r/seduction07/05/12 02:18 PM
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ask her out, pick a day that's probable to be ok for her. if she texts you back with a no and doesn't offer some other day, don't reply. to be honest the fact she wants to hang out only after the exams are over sounds a bit like she might not be that interested.
/r/seduction07/05/12 11:13 AM
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depends a lot on your previous communication, have you asked her out already and when if so?
/r/seduction07/05/12 10:51 AM
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you go to a club and don't make a single approach? you will never make progress if you don't push yourself out of the comfort zone. remember that. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ta1em/how_to_have_courage/c4kvmum
/r/seduction07/05/12 10:14 AM
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or from the fact that you're completely self-amused in own reality; you're having fun and not seeking external validation.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:55 PM
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"if you think I'm being too hasty let me know ;)" so I told her that we would just take it slow and get to know each other first by texting. hugely beta. would never text anything like that. HB9 you say, getting to know each other through texting? that must be a really shy HB9. you ask the girl out with minimal text work, she either complies or doesn't. trying to warm her up by exchanging superfluous messages before a date is only going to show what a pussy you are.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:49 PM
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go out as often as you can. talk to everyone at every opportunity you get, guys, girls you're not interested in etc. if you go out alone, this is really important. otherwise the odds are you keep looking for that perfect set to open while you sink deeper into the spectator mode. truth is there's no silver bullet or epiphany waiting for you. success comes with hard work, by taking action and reference experiences as Julien would say.
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:17 PM
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don't be the anti-social dark newbie
/r/seduction06/05/12 07:36 PM
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"your loss" is a reactive and butthurt mindset, that's why i don't really like it
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:12 PM
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everytime there are posts like this it's just immediately obvious that the guy is out of the girls league and she doesn't realize it
/r/seduction06/05/12 11:29 AM
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seriously, you're putting way too much value on this single girl. stop thinking about the whole thing right now. devising some kind of strategy is only going to fuck your head up more and you're in for some really depressive feelings once you get rejected again. i'd advise to remove her from your life but since your work with her, it's not possible. essentially, do what pualive said. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT6QxRkjCAQ
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:47 AM
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make sure you have contact info, and don't talk to her for a while theoretically the best advice, if OP already asked her out like last week. otherwise it's way too much interest in such a short period of time. diagnosis: oneitis prescription: meet other women to unfuck your mind. once accomplished, come back to the girl from abundance mindset (if you still care), she'll notice your lack of neediness edit: tyler has a great video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT6QxRkjCAQ
/r/seduction01/05/12 04:48 PM
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she's probably just testing you and taking the upper hand in the relationship, just see how you fell into scarcity and fucked up your head? cancel whatever meeting you're going to have and get back to her in one week while meeting other women.
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:55 AM
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you've asked her out twice unreciprocated and turned her off by being desperate and showing too much interest. realistically, it's not very likely you'll get a positive response from her. however, rejection builds character and is better than feeling regret over something you could have done. go for it and report back. btw, if you're actually going to tell her that you're "drawn to her", do it the most nonchalant and neutral way possible.
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:38 AM
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isn't omegle text only? wouldn't chatroulette be better assuming you don't get penises
/r/seduction30/04/12 12:19 PM
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thing is you don't want to have some forced smile on your face, it's incongruent to how you feel and comes off as fake. smiling is fine as long as it's natural and not a side effect of nervousness. if you're not smiling then you're probably not having fun, and that's the problem.
/r/seduction30/04/12 07:46 AM
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smiling all the time is not good.
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:23 PM
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good post and describes my journey quite well. too bad it went unnoticed.
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:10 PM
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not to be rude but you sound like an AFC looking for validation and an easy way out, instead of experiencing pain and pushing the comfort zone. "i'm an introvert" is a limiting belief. socializing is something you can learn to enjoy through positive experiences.
/r/seduction29/04/12 11:56 AM
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you can answer that by asking yourself the question, does the first drink give you momentum?
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:08 AM
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how often do you even find a girl like that at a bar or a club, jesus and odds are she won't give a fuck if you have a drink in your hand or not, otherwise she would be repulsed by all the people around her all night
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:01 AM
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it's complicated
/r/seduction28/04/12 04:09 PM
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agree with oshyare on some level but if you don't have many plates to spin i think you shouldn't delete her just yet, keep radio silence and reinitiate with a non-sequitur or something nonchalant. although if deleting her number is what it takes for you to stop thinking about her—if that's a problem—then go ahead. it's good to keep a clear head.
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:52 PM
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"Pickup, my dear friends, is 93% self belief, 6% knowledge, 4% mental masturbation, and 2% looks." i feel taking action should be somewhere in there. you can read pickup books and keyboard jockey on the internet all you want but real progress happens in the field.
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:12 PM
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well, by talking to people to give your brain proof that nothing bad happens. just last night i was out alone sarging and having fun without alcohol so i know getting into state can be really tough. i think Tyler says in one of his videos that the first 30 seconds of the night can determine the outcome of the night, so it's paramount to be really talkative and push yourself to be social from start. the longer you linger around looking for the a set, deeper you go into spectator mode, and also ri…
/r/seduction22/04/12 02:12 PM
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here's a great post by Ozzie on how to kill state: http://www.rsdnation.com/comment_redirect/84492 But more often than not, espcially when I'm in an unfamiliar environment, I'm in an untalkative mood. When I do try and talk, my voice comes out low, unexcited and dry, and I sound bored and unanimated. i think this is because your primitive brain wants proof (not promises) that it's safe to talk to these unknown people in this strange environment and not get mauled. oops, mis-edited
/r/seduction22/04/12 01:49 PM
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sounds like you're overcomplicating things, there's no silver bullet to cure approach anxiety. get out of your head and make approaches, baby steps. watch some RSD videos on inner game: http://www.youtube.com/user/rsdtyler http://www.youtube.com/user/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:44 AM
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However, when her drink came, she walked away without saying a word. I was dumbfounded. impossible to say for sure without seeing you in action but it's possible you just put out a weird/creepy vibe with the racist thing.
/r/seduction21/04/12 07:34 PM
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i mean that you should try to be in a conversation most of the time to build momentum throughout the evening. don't go inside your head to analyze stuff. when you're alone and not talking to anyone, only criteria for success is approaching. the rest will workout itself.
/r/seduction21/04/12 07:09 PM
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have a lot of fun be outcome independent talk to everyone, all the time without more context the best i can do.
/r/seduction21/04/12 05:40 PM
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but i need this girl, she's the only one in the world, MY PRINCESS! brb txting
/r/seduction21/04/12 03:36 PM
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lol online dates
/r/seduction21/04/12 10:31 AM
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don't shout, sounds needy and desperate. next time you bump into her, stop her, and for example ask her about the kind of routes she runs and if she's found some cool ones. just keep talking and gauge her interest levels a bit and then you can propose if you run together. thing is you can't just outright go and ask to run with her, she doesn't know anything about you and the idea of committing to run with a stranger is scary.
/r/seduction21/04/12 08:56 AM
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what's your goal in buying her drink? to make her stay? that's needy and beta. it subcommunicates lower value, "i'm not good enough for you so i'll have to buy a drink to compensate" it shows you don't screen girls properly before investing in them. you buy her a drink and she knows you do this to every girl. why would she be interested in you if she knows you pour your resources on every girl you meet. also see what i wrote elsewhere. hope this helps.
/r/seduction20/04/12 02:28 PM
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wait at least 1 week to give her time to show interest with txt. reinitiate and ask her out. for optimal logistics i would be inclined to make it a night time date with alcohol involved, so that it's easier time for both you and her to go for the kiss. also, organize the logistics so that you can touch her while you hang out. you'll know more based on how the second date goes if you can make it happen in the first place. if there's no makeout on the second date you should probably cut contact an…
/r/seduction20/04/12 01:57 PM
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wait 2-4 weeks and reinitiate, you should always have other girls anyway. otherwise you risk falling into scarcity mindset and oneitis, leading you to fuck it up with your "current" girl. next time you ask her out be straight about it, do it in away that leaves no doubt you're asking her on a date. if she says no and doesn't do some kind of counter offer like some other day, NEXT.
/r/seduction20/04/12 10:23 AM
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Women have options men do not, taking advantage of those options is looked down upon because it is easy, no skill required. For a man to have options is a very difficult thing. Don't get me wrong I have the utmost respect for women. BUT when is comes to having sex things are vastly different when it comes to finding a willing partner. i promise all of this makes sense to you once you understand the underlying evolutionary reasons for the reproductive strategies that are in play and have develope…
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:58 AM
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building social skills takes a long time, you should start right now. want to post this story as well because your comment reminded me about it: http://postmasculine.com/the-ipanema-boardwalk
/r/seduction20/04/12 07:28 AM
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indeed, the girl will stick around as long she feels that you buying her drink obligates her to. that's her reciprocating the favor in form of keeping you company, and doesn't get you any closer to fucking her. you see, you don't want reciprocity, you want attraction.
/r/seduction18/04/12 08:07 PM
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no reason to spend money on girls you've known for 5 minutes in any case. unless on a date, it will nearly always be seen as DLV and supplicating behavior.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:40 PM
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i hope you don't go ahead and waste your money
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:34 PM
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i gauge the situation. if a girl is into me and her drink is on the table, i nonchalantly take a sip from it and activate my stone mode and ignore the self-induced shit test. i won't grab a drink from girls hand without asking though, it might cause an uncomfortable scene. rather just put my hand forward and see if i get compliance.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:31 PM
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i hope no one takes this advice seriously and starts buying drinks to every girl they meet and talk to for a while.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:24 PM
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Here's related video by RSD's Tyler, it's long but well worth the 2 hours: The Truth About Success 2 -- Execution, Learning From Failure, Not Being A Lazy Slug
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:45 AM
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HB10 will be intimidating regardless of if I rationalize her attractiveness to a number before making an approach (I don't)
/r/seduction17/04/12 06:25 PM
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i just say i'm alone, or "i have no friends", i don't look like a guy who doesn't have friends so the latter is slightly funny. it's better to be honest and then there's an opportunity to crush the subsequent shit test that may come after saying you're alone. if you feel that you have to lie to a girl about you being alone there, you're making her the prize. who the fuck cares if you're out alone having fun. ultimately she'll know if you're full of shit and will notice that you're nervous about …
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:15 AM
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