Ok, so I am not bad in A1 or A2, I get a lot of traction quickly and get numbers 100% of the time, even kiss closes maybe 60% of the time. The problem though is once I get her number I am completely screwed. I loose momentum like a pillow in molasses. I've had a similar situation happen 3 times in a row with very attractive women and it's a definite sticking point - I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

So here's a run down of what usually happens:

  • Day 0: Kiss close or clear attraction, get number, leave. Text her to meet up and she's like ";) Hi there! I'm going out of town for a few days but maybe we can meet up later on". And I'm like "no worries, cool, i'll let you know."

  • Day 3-4: She "comes back" from wherever she was (probably a shit test but I don't know how to get around it). I text her like "Hey I'm getting [marshmallows and unicorn steaks] Tuesday. Should I pick you up at 7?" She replies one day later "Hey sorry for the late reply, I'm busy and I'll be back [when the skittles fall out of my vagina and start dancing the Samba]"

  • Day Skittles: I text, "Hey so I'm going out with friends to [the happy fun land of rainbows and shit], where should I pick you up?" Her reply, "Hey hope you had a fun weekend, actually I don't think I can make it because [I am an LA b*tch and my memory of you has been overwritten by the 8 other attractive men who have hit on me in the past week]"

So how do I combat this? Try to get more physical investment on Day 0? Should I call her bluff and be like "That's fine I don't think you're important enough to justify my time either"? Or should I just keep texting and offering to take her out?