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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [FR] Movie and Dinner date, epic cringes aheadI hate a date pretty similar to this. It was my first date in like 2 years. It was just horrific but then I learned from my mistakes and then the next date I went on after that was ezpz. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I need some near-beginner tips...My friends are on another level as well but instead of being pressured into trying to get to their level. Ask them for advice on situations you get in. My friends don't look down on me for being inexperienced but they do help me out a lot when I get into situation with girls. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 02:19 AM |
| 1 | I need some near-beginner tips...I'm also inexperienced as well. I've never been in a relationship. Haven't dated a lot of girls and I got my first kiss when I was your age. What I do for your first issue is I make it more of a positive than a negative. I really make it more of a learning experience and it makes it exciting every time I reach a new level with a girl. For the second issue, I realized that people like a guy who can take charge and voice his opinion. don't let the anxiety get to you and if you get into a situation… | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 07:23 AM |
| 2 | What are some fun, cheap ways to meet new people during the summer away from college while you are under 21?I'm in the same situation as well. I work but I just walk dogs and the neighborhood is very secluded so no cute girls at all. My Idea was to look for events or activities that are weekly or bi weekly that maybe involve something interesting or new that involves people. if that fails I'm working out and getting in shape for when I go back to school to feel good about my body, I'm a tad overweight. | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 05:54 AM |
| 0 | Why most indirect approaches don't lead anywhere.Very true, I always look at it from my perspective since i'm only 19 and I game in subtle places. I never really saw it that way. Your comment makes very clear sense to me, Indirect works! it's just that it takes a lot of skill and it goes into a deeper level of attraction. Also I never really put context into account either. I learned something today, thank you. | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 04:35 AM |
| 41 | [FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesomeMen, pack your things. We're deploying to Barcelona! | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Looking for some adviceYou need to go up to her and ask her on a date. your over thinking it which is really preventing you from asking her out. You have nothing to lose, remember that. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 12:13 AM |
| 31 | When she sends you a text like this,don't forget to thank yourself. seddit just gave you the tools, but you had the courage and put those tools into use. cheers mate | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 02:53 AM |
| 1 | She mentions 2nd date.. Should I initiate?If I was in this situation i would say " I don't have plans yet for tonight. perhaps you would be interested in going out tonight." something that doesn't make it sound like you don't have anything to do and your only option is her | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 11:17 PM |
| 1 | PUA Vids for Seddit possiblyI can agree, me and my friends are going to a school event and were gonna game there so our first video will be an FR. Should be fun. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis just got knocked the f**k out.It hurts to let go of feelings for someone, but with time and the determination to go out there and meet new women or just people in general. You'll be over this girl soon. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:55 PM |
| 1 | The story of the girl that was my first and biggest success, yet my worst loss.Figuring since I am still young, I agree about you with the dreamy phase. And were still friends, I just need to not see her for a while and just game and meet new women. Then once everything is well, we can hang out and see eachother. whether we date again or not who knows but I'm just gonna enjoy life and all the things it has to offer. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Why keeping your options open is key.I unfortunately do, but the first step is admittance. I know I have this problem. solution? go out and game. it's gonna be hard but it's for my own benefit. I'm gonna come in with the right attitude so I'm ready to game for the most part. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | My biggest fear is that ...Yup, it's called being beta. you have to believe in yourself that your an interesting person and when you go up to approach the girl will be able to notice that confidence. and there are no such things as no opportunities. there are always opportunities. I like to call it: AA blindness. when you feel the urge to game but there aren't and "opportunities" but in reality your nervous to see the opportunities and make approaches. go take risks and make approaches!!! | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Critique My Approach.That was not a great approach but it's alright we learn from mistakes. I think you did ask for the number way too fast, and instead of asking for her number, you should have asked if she would have been interested in getting coffee with you sometime and then if she said yes, you could have gotten her number. At least you had the balls to be straight up with her and tell her your intention. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 12:20 AM |
| 0 | The Walking Approach?Of course talk to women dumb ass, but I've never approached a girl who was just walking by me, I'm just asking for tips on the do's and don't of walking approaches. and next time try not to give "advice" when you clearly know nothing of the subject. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 05:41 AM |
| 3 | First Real Rejection.Thanks for the advice? but basically I really have blown this up way too much than I should have. I'm an awesome guy and if she doesn't see that then her loss, this is just one date of many that will come in the future. Rejection happens but I just have to think on the positive side and realize that rejection happens to everyone and to move on. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Should i try my luck with this girl?Just go up and do it. You have nothing to lose really. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Yeah I've just got over it but now that I tried arranging a 2nd date and she hasn't texted back. It sucks but I mean there will be more opportunities in the future. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 05:58 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with me?WOW! that article was spot on! thanks for the information. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Thank you for that great advice! I needed this. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?please do :) | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 04:06 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with me?have we meet? Oh thats right you were there when I made history today with that epic approach today hahaha | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conversation...I am also a shy person as well. My game plan after the approach is usually to find something to talk about that she enjoys, so ask a few questions about herself. Another thing that works is talking about something that you enjoy to do and that maybe she will find interest in. Thats all I got. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Dating Dealbreakers?actually she made it into a race. She texted me and another guy to hang out and the other guy texted her first and she just ignored me when I replied. She's not worth investing my time anymore. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Sedditors what are some of your favorite PUA movies?it's not really a movie but the show "How I met your Mother" | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Dating Dealbreakers?This advice is incredibly great. Thank you. Also I read it as book of pooh hahaha but I found the real book you mentioned and I will read it on my free time. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 07:13 AM |
| 27 | How I Handled A FlakeHandled it like a pro. I applaud you :) | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 06:28 AM |
| 1 | My PUA experience and my situation now.Exactly! Those are the girls that i'm really iffy about trying to arrange plans. it's a lot of trouble sometimes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 06:03 AM |
| 1 | My PUA experience and my situation now.I like your advice, thank you! | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 05:20 AM |
| 2 | My PUA experience and my situation now.Great advice, thank you. I just hope I can actually arrange something with her soon. She's a terrible texter. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Just when I think I'm doing everything right, she drops the boyfriend wordYou got friendzoned without warning. You have to think about it sometimes that am I coming on too friendly or am I showing interest in a casual way? I would suggest moving on and finding another interesting girl to meet. It's not really worth it chasing after girls. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Texting ideas to keep up the interest?I suggest asking her on a date because being able to talk to a girl in person is more beneficial than texting. When I text a girl that I've gotten her number. I keep it casual but not boring and I don't text them often only for small talk and to make plans to go out. But in person I pretty much say what I feel at the moment I just say it with as much confidence as I can and girls respond to confidence. So ask her on a date. what do you have to lose really. Don't be afraid to take risks. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 05:30 AM |
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