Male, 22, expat, not speaking the language of the country I'm in. People from my country are seen as immigrants but I blend in this culture and population due to my looks.

  1. I'm pretty good at negging but it is often hard to turn it into kino. What would be the best way to do that?

  2. Bars in here are really loud so opening sets would actually mean opening only one person from that set by shouting in their ears (and.. these are bars, mind you, not clubs). How would one try to work the magic in this situation? (I won't go to other pubs just yet. I would rather start this whole PUA within the places I feel the best in)

  3. Being a really crowded place, isolating someone is impossible. Heck, if I am to get off my chair, chances are someone will take it in a matter of seconds. Smoking is also permitted inside so inviting to go out for a fag would be.. pointless. Any ideas?

Point is, I don't think I've been out of a relationship for a period longer than 3-4 months. And, well, you could say all the girlfriends I got, I could have gotten faster. You could say I was lucky enough that they hanged around until I pulled the trigger.

I was out last night with 2 of my friends (girls) just for the sake of going out. It was the first time of going downtown after starting reading this whole PUA stuff and the point was merely observing the interactions around. I find it funny how simply reading some articles and FR's changed my way of thinking from "2 girls and 1 guy drinking at a table" to "there's a 3-set".

Or, whenever the girls at my table were saying something good about themselves, I would think "alright, that's a DHV attempt". And, so on. For the record though, these new perceptions don't change the way I think but are merely.. a "console"? heh...