Ehh what to say. I'm 30 now and haven't been in a relationship since high school. My first and only relationship in high school the girl asked ME out. I guess I was lucky.

I've tried eharmony, match, okcupid, and pof. Got a couple first dates but they went nowhere, no chemistry, no real attraction to be honest. I've repeated this online dating cycle at least 50 times over the past 12 years, just get a first date and that's about it. Sometimes a kiss on the cheek at the end, but no real romance or lust from each other. I've forgotten what making out feels like.

As for the date, it's just a coffee or walk in the park, nothing too special. I don't know the girls, so it's more a learning experience than anything else.

Now outside the online dating scene, here's where I'm in trouble even more. Absolutely ZERO dates in 12 years. 12 friggen years man!! I'm not anti-social, but everyone I meet seems to be in a relationship. Boyfriend, boyfriend, married, boyfriend, married. Of course, they're attractive girls, I wouldn't expect them to stay single long, they probably have orbiters on the back burner to rebound on if they do break up.

But, I dunno how to really meet single women around town. There have been days I've went out to town with the purpose just to go find some phone numbers and I come back empty handed.

Now I understand I should volunteer, join a social hobby, club, what have you. There is not really any meetups around here like that. It's a rural area and there is a college 90 minute drive away.

Considering that, I re-enrolled to college to take 1 class just to pop on campus hoping to meet someone there. I'm still 30 though, so that'll be awkward when the age exchange comes up. I plan to join one of the frats this fall and see if I can hangout at their parties to meet people but I don't really know. I was more a science nerd back when I graduated with a BS at 23. I'm introverted.

Anyways I figured this would sorta be a wall of text, but I think I could use some additional help, having exhausted most of google, faqs, tips and tricks, and at least 5 years of my life on this PUA stuff which hasn't really turned out well.

I'm lonely man.